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writes:I'm 15 and at my age in my school people talk about people and i hate being talked about and i never speak up or anything in class because i don't wanna be talked about or at the centre of attention so i avoid participating in class and going to board or something because of this i tell myself forget them but i bag down at times because i get so nervous, i need a good inspiration to get me to forget them and live my life.What can i do because I'm smart and i know things in class but never prove it because of they just sit and mellow and talk about people all out loud and sometimes whisper....... what can i do Reply to this Question
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (11 December 2009):
 you gotta get used to it man thats life its not gonna change even after highschool people talk about people look at all the magazines and talk shows people are mean you gotta be strong if your smart thats great get good grades go to a good college you can be making alot of money one day Bill gates probably got talked about alot lol. Those kids are miserable inside there home life sucks the only thing that makes them feel better is making other people feel bad.In ten years those kids will be in terrible relation ships working jobs they hate. There was a girl that bothered me in Highschool all the time she would talk about me everyday, even the teacher said she must like me. one day we had an assignment to do an autobiography of ourself when this girls turn came she started crying as she read her life was actually pretty bad she had it rough i guess bothering me was just her way of venting. I would suggest standing up for yourself let them know your not the guy to mess with some people wont stop unless you scare them good enough. you gotta know when to play along and when to get defensive if some one talks about you talk about them back most of these guys will only go for an easy target some one who wont stick up for themselves any way good luck
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