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writes:I am confused and upset.I had a chat a while back that has really been ingrained in my head.I had a chat with another guy. At first I thought the guy was joking so I joked around back being a smart a$$, but became aroused and the rest is history.After that chat I continued to do the same thing, I began to seek out those interactions from that same chat online.Before the experience I never had any indication I was possibly a homosexual, but looking back now and hearing people say things about me, I wonder if I always had that in me and if that is who I am as a person, but I'm just not sure.How could you be sure of your sexuality if you never had any indication towards the same sex before an online encounter? Why does it bug me so much?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (10 December 2009):
google "the Kinsey scale" which details the varying degrees of human sexuality. You are obviously attracted to guys to some extent, but maybe you are in the majority of people who will fantasize about it but never actually go through with it. You will never really know until you have physically meet someone you like in person.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (10 December 2009):
Sexuality isn't a black and white issue.
You could be 95% into girls and 5% in to boys or the other way round.
Many people don't figure out who they are until their mid 20's so there's no need to stress. You are you and this is only a small part of you.
Good Luck!! xx
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