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writes:Just curious... is 2 1/2 - 3 months too long to call someone?I exchanged numbers with a girl after having a polite conversation with her. I told her in a text, after a couple were exchanged, that I would give her a call some time. Well, to add a bit to the back story, I've had a very busy 3 months with a lot of personal hurdles, busy work life, and the end of my past relationship filling the majority of my time. I don't know, however, if saying I've just been really busy is a good enough excuse as to why I have not called this girl earlier. More importantly, I don't know if it would just be weird to finally give her a call to go get a cup of coffee after 3 months have elapsed. And I feel liked I would have to let her know I didn't call because I was fairly preoccupied and unavailable.Open ended post ... all thoughts welcome. I feel I should know what is right, but what to do next, call or forget about, eludes me.Cheers!
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reader, Sadnat  +, writes (10 December 2009):
 ok its not normally exceptable but i think that you should take a chance. My brother phoned a girl who he broke up with after like 3 years because he wanted to see how she was doing and now they are married.who would have thought...so i say take a chance maybe she will understand, 3 months is not a life time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): I think so... it's usually not okay to disappear if you are already in a relationship but if you just exchanged numbers and didn't call, it's not that bad.
By now she may have decided that you did not like her, so the call may be a pleasant surprise.
You may discover that her relationship status may have changed since, but still there is no harm in calling her.
Shows that she made an impression :)
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