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female
age
26-29,
*ccookie
writes:I'm torn between to different guys. When i say different, i meen compleatly different!The first is annoying and infuriating, he is so arragont and up himself, but he is so funny, and can be nice when he wants to be.He dosn't sound like a good guy, he don't to me either,but its so wired he makes me feel special and i can't help but love it when hes around. My firends say im too good for him and hes a player, but i just can't seem to get away. We had a fling a few months back and im going out with the other guy atm, but i can't help but when i see him even for five mins that day, i think about him more than the one im with even if i was with him all day.The other is sweet and caring, and hes really trustworthy, but he is so shy and has hardly any confidence. I know this guy really likes me and i do like him, we havent been going out for that long and i am starting to really like him, my friends say he is good for me but i can't help it but i am always the one who starts the conversation. Shy types are not my type but this guy for some reason i like being around and he makes me feel calm and happy when im with him. Should i stay with him for longer and see wht happens? They are so different in so many ways (the only thing that is similar about them is that they are both good looking.) The question is should i go for the one who i argue with most of the time im with, but love doing it aslong as its him im arguing with, or the shy one who makes me feel safe and happy.Safe or risk.im so confused, i can't even describe half of what they both make me feel:\
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reader, SeXylOvE12  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 Stay with your boyfriend. I used to be just like you always falling for the outgoing player. You know that if you go for him you're probably going to end up getting hurt. It's easier to bring a shy guy out of his shell then it is to get an arrogant, obnoxious player to settle down. Listen to your friends, they can see outside the infatuation. If you want long term, stay with your guy.
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