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It's been over a year now, and he's still my Bf. But how can I overcome my jealously over the girl he once saw, when he cheated?

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Question - (9 February 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2013)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Over a year ago my boyfriend who i care about very very much cheated on me.

She is the same age as him and before i found this out i had personally always thought she was very pretty and very nice.

Once i found this out i was of course very upset and i decided to give him a second chance because i know he is very sorry and he treats me like a princess.

So here's my problem, its been over a year and i feel so jealous of this girl.

Is this normal?

How can i overcome this? I see her occasionally in my classes and this worsens it.

I guess i feel like she has everything and is just perfect and this makes me hate her with a passion. I just need to know how to overcome this. Any ideas of what i should do? Thank you!

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A female reader, Cripes United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2013):

Looking at your age, I think you should break up with him. Staying with a partner of 45 years after one indiscretion and settling with a cheating partner when you are so young and have so much more to experience with your life are two very different things.

Leave him. There are plenty more fish in the sea. You will love again. You deserve better.

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