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How to respond without scaring him off?

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Question - (13 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2009)
A female Denmark age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone and merry X-mas, I need some help if you can; my ex and I broke up 5 months ago, at first we didn't talk at all, but like 2 months after the break up we started talking, he would txt me every day, all day. Then without reason he stopped txting me for 2 days, last night I got a txt from him saying sorry for not txting and that he'd found out he's still physically attracted to me, and we can't talk as friends right now.

I still like him alot, but don't know how to react or reply to this, I do want to reply this message, I'm just unsure how to do so, having in mind, that I do like him still and that I don't want to scare him off.

Thanks!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009):

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Thanks for your answer. I know he hasn't been with anyone else. We've been talking every day since late September, and the reason why he would sometimes not talk these last 2 days is because our conversations could get too "dirty". I've been acting happy and as if we're just friends, even though I still care a lot about him, as we've been together for a couple of years before our break-up.

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A female reader, onehottmama_21 United States +, writes (13 December 2009):

onehottmama_21 agony auntThis happened to me. When the guy I loved would text me all the time. Then stop for a few days. I found out he was seeing someone else but wasn't sure if he wanted her. Sounds like to me he was (maybe) seeing someone and he ened up not liking her so he got back talking with you. If a man doesn't talk to u for awhile. Usually means their up to somethin. Happened to me. Ur story sounds like mine. I would test him to see his true feelings. Act like friends at first and that ur happy

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