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Archived questions from: 5 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is he flirting to try to make me jealous or does he love himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Okay so i,m really getting frustrated with this guy, it's been nearly a year and this guy and I have built up a serious connection and can't keep our eyes or hands off each other(casual but not intimate touching)But obviously intentional especially ...

Fiance had long phone conversations with another woman. How do I approach this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - I recently was able to check on cell ph records which confirmed my suspicions that my fiance has been having some long conversations with another woman. It stopped a couple of months ago but should I confront him or let it go? It does bother me but ...

Shall he ever call me again even to apologize

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - 2weeks ago I was going through some hard time at work and I was very sick,my boyfriend who is 23 years older than me did not stand by me, I called him and he said fine, I told him I sense you want to break up with me, he said no. I told him that wo...

So am I setting myself up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - So i hung out with an ex boyfriend over the weekend and we had a great time. he says he still has love for me. I know he cares. anyway i texted him saying i had a nice time w/you and it made me happy to hang out with you. maby i'm analyzing it too ...

He said to be patient... but this sounds crappy, doesn't it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Ok...I'm 45 and the guy I've been dating for almost three months is 34. I've invited him to meet friends...my family..but he always backs off. Today we talked and he said that three months is way too early. We only see each other about once a ...

My boyfriend doesn't know what is a real woman in bed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend ignores me in bed every time. We have sex once or twice a week and it lasts exaclty 10 minutes both foreplay (if any) and penetration, and no cuddling after that or even a shot of another round because he is either too tired or just ...

My friend is being weird!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5051 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Hi my friend and i know each other nearlly a year. we got close really fast, but over the last six months we've started to dift apart, i don't know why but i guess these things happen. i try and ask her if something is up because there is always s...

Someone please help me with my husband!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - [Mod note: Combined two questions as they are both about the same marriage.] i am a 22 year old mother of two i have been married to my husband for over a year now we have dated since high school for the past eight years.in 2007 he gotten inca...

My neediness and insecurity is costing me my relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (M) - My name is, James. I am 35 years old and really need help. I have been single for a long time. I recently became involved with a woman and through my neediness and insecurity have already lost her. I have always been this way and I am not sure how ...

He promised not disappear, but he has!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Hi, i am dating this guy for over 4 months, he called me in my birthday, and he told me what i was doing, i told him 2 weeks ago that i will like to share with him and my best friends, and hes says it was ok, when the day arrived he called me and he ...

Is it worth trying and holding on to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 July 2010 (M) - I'm 20 and i'v been out of school for about a year and 1/2 and i dont really feel like going back yet, but i have a girlfriend that i really care for that is going to collage soon and i dont see her much as is but once she starts school im afrade ...

How to get over the past in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - This is a bit of a long story, so I'll try to make it short. I have an amazing boyfriend. He treats me like a queen and would do anything to make me happy. I see in him the man I want to marry and the man who I want to father my future children....

Hi neediness is becoming too much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - my boyfriends always trying to make me feel bad when i dont give him attention, like call and text more or say romantic things. and I DO ! i make an effort, and one second he appreciates and the next he just says i dont do enough. its upsetting me ...

I miss my boyfriend and want help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years we were sooo good until i stupidly ended it just before Christmas, we got back together in feb but found it hard as i struggled with trust, he finished me then because i was always on at him he has ...

He copies moves and words from porn movies! It's not romantic and it's not helping my insecurities!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - hey there, i know you probably read these questins all the time but here we go. im 17 and my boyfriend of 21 have been together for a year, and recently i have become very insecure in my relationship. every day i dont think i am good enough or ...

I have been waiting 17 months for him to leave his partner and move in with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Well I'm in great need of help and advise, I'm 23 I have a good job and my own place, here's where the problem starts.. I have been seein this guy now for 17 month he's 10 years older than me but he acts the same age we get on so well when we're ...

I never seem to make it past the dating part of the relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Dear aunties, I never seem to make it past the dating part of the relationship, it never seems to become official. I know I'm not clingy, I show interest appropriately and I'm just picky enough to where I'm not settling. I recently went on a...

How do I change our sex life so that it's amazing every time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Just yesterday my boyfriend and I were really aggravated at each other. So, as we were laying down I asked him why he was mad at me. He began to explain why, and on top of the first reason there were a few others. When we were done talking, ...

Is it right for a boyfriend to say that he should always be your top priority?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - I'd like your opinions about this. Is it right for a boyfriend to say that he should always be your top priority, meaning even more important than your friends and family, e.t.c ?. Personally, i think everyone should be treated equally. i dont think ...

He proposed over two years ago, but we are no closer to being married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - My fiance and I have been together and lived together for 8.5 years now. He proposed 2.5 years ago. We bought a house together this year. Whenever I bring up getting married he becomes upset and last week he told me he "isn't ready". I am in my ...

Why is he ignoring me for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - I am in a ldr(long distance relation)for about 5 years. My bf is angry with me for getting him in trouble at work by being I admit annoying and over texting him. I realize I was annoying, and didn't consider his job but I believe I just miss him and ...

Exhibitionism/Voyeurism in Women? And Flirtatiousness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (M) - [Mod note: two questions combined from same poster.] To save space, I'll withhold a lot or most of the details, but I discovered, without her knowing that I know, that my 50-year old wife is both exposing herself and "peeking on the peekers whil...

Heavily pregnant with a boyfriend who is unsupportive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Hi all. im 8 months pregnant and my bf is unemployed at the moment and so stressd out and he never calls me nor text me. weve been together for atleast 10 months now. he was madly in love with me but now he is distant. i feel like dumping him n ...

Do I give my husband an ultimatum to stop contacting his half-sister?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - I an unsure as to what to do for the best, do I give my husband an ultimatum to stop contacting his half sister. He only ever lived with her for a year when she was two and he was twelve, (they share the same dad who died earlier on this year), they ...

I lied to my girlfriend about drunkenly hitting on a girl at a party!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (M) - hi. 5 weeks into my relationship with my girlfriend i went out to a party without her as she was sick. I was hanging around my mates and this girl approached me to say hi and flirt, i told her to leave me alone as i was not interested. Later on...

He says I'm too rough? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - He tells me that we can't see each other anymore because I like it too rough in the bedroom. What do i do? I tell him that it isnt about being rough, I like it sometimes like that. But he swears everytime that im to rough. ...

My boyfriend cries to make me feel bad or to win an argument!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (?) - Hello, I kinda feel bad because I feel that my boyfriend of about a year and a half only cries to make me feel bad or to win an argument when it's about something serious. It's like he only cries when it would be believeable but I just get a strang...

Am I making a big deal over nothing? I am consumed by his relatiomship with his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - When me and my bf were together for 2 months, his ex started calling him. This is the woman he thought he would marry. He told me she called and they talked on the phone, and I wasn't mad. After another month he let me borrow his phone, and his ...

Why can't I just let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - I liked this guy for months. were coworkers sometimes he's mean and sometimes he nice and has a convo with me.sometimes he says hi to me sometimes he doesn't. he walked in front of me with his gf. i wonder if he did that on purpose.well i kinda fi...

How can I make my girlfriend forget this other guy and come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (M) - hi i thank you before answering my question...so i have a girlfriend and we have child and when she was pregnant i passed from a very diffcult time and i wasnt that helpful,apart from that she always liked this guy and now she's liking even ...

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - my boyfriend i going out with another girl from another state. when we first started going out he said that he had broken up with her.and then 2 weeks later he started calling me and telling me to break up with him. and i told him about all the ...

If a man is using you for sex why would he keep on coming back even if he didnt get it every time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - if a man is using you for sex would he keep coming back even if he didnt always get it and sometimes he did but it wasnt great? how do you tell if someone is genuine or a really good liar, i have to say he has a girlfriend and the rule of thumb is ...

I don't understand why he has lost interest, I haven't done anything wrong...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship for 4 months with a man I slept with twice and saw maybe once every two weeks.... while he was away on a holiday, I cheated on him with another guy who I just met but who was a friend of our friends.... I spent ...

Both men love me and know I deeply love both of them. I am so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Long story semi-short. I am in love with 2 men. The first I lived with 4 years and while it was a wonderful relationship filled with love, he was not ready to get married like I wanted and needed. I moved out and purchased my own home and we keep ...

In love with 2 guys, and the new guy in my life is still not divorced, what is a girl to do?

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5 July 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 qyestions from the same poster have been merged together] When I took a break from a almost 2 year relationship, I met a guy 13 years older than me and now he loves me. I am back with the ex kind of, but am more compatib...

Is he just being nice? Or sending me mixed signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Here is my dilemma. I dated a man one year ago. I was the one to ask him out for coffee. We ended up really clicking and dated for six months. We kept our relationship a secret because my kids knew each other. Didn't really have any major ...

The intimacy in our relationship has all but gone completely, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - i don't know what to do .we don't talk or rarely in sleep in the same bed . if it wasnt for a few i love yous and kisses you wouldn't even know were a couple please help...

I believe he still loves me but why doesn't he want to be with me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - So here is my problem: I am still in love with my ex boyfriend whom i dated two years ago. We only dated for a few months and i broke up with him because i felt like he wasnt opening up to me. Well he suggested to remain friends when we broke up and ...

We don't know each other, but he loves me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Hi, ok so I have a problem. A couple of months ago this guy contacted me through the Internet. now this was not throught a dating site, it was a site just to play random games on. I didn't think it was a problem because I talked to people all the ...

How do I tell him I never want to speak to him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - I hate this man I'm seeing. He lied to me once, now twice. LDR...I'm visiting him now and just want to leave. Today, I told him I wasnt speaking to him, he left to go to store or whatever and hasn't been back since...its been three hours. I dont ...

I fell in love with him after all his flirting but he has a girlfriend, how do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Hello, I have a really big problem with a boy.br Well I think I love him. All the winter , he was like ignoring me and we were just known. In the summer lessons suddenly he came to me, asked me for my msn and was talking to me all the time. We ...

I am still struggling to come to terms with my boyfriend's cheating and now I have met someone else, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - I need help! Ok so this is the sittuation. Im in my 20's and iv been with my bf for over 4 years. Everything was PERFECT untill he went on a buisness trip and cheated on me. I called his hotel room to have some B**** answer his phone and tell my she ...

My long distance boyfriend doesn't trust me but he has the cheek to lie to me about himself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met my boyfriend online 6 months ago, and in a short period of time, we fell in love with each other. Even though we live a world apart, but we eagerly started this long distance relationship. We keep in contact by phone calls and ...

Is love enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

5 July 2010 (M) - How can you be with someone when you are on two different pages? I love my girlfriend but she feels that owning your own business and working for yourself isn't stable enough and a waste of time. I love what I do and I make a decent living doing it. ...

Should I just give up on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - well i met this wonderful guy,hes 2 years older than me im 24. he's cute, intelligent, and so cultured that he took me completely by surprise,it was in a dating site, truth, and we e-mail like a month, since he is in the army i usually got replies ...

What reasons whould my ex-girlfriend have for unblocking me on facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 July 2010 (M) - Well me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago after dating for 7 months. When we broke up it was really more of a "break" if you will, and we were just being friends during the break. She didn't act like herself at all during this time, ...

Why was my boyfriend grossed out by this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - Hi I would like to ask all you Aunts out there this question.Why would my boyfriend be grossed out by this.We had been mucking around and he started to put his finger down on my vagina.he then said your dry as,i turned to him and said no way and i ...

He keeps running hot and cold

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - okay me and my boyfriend were dating after justa few months of being together he told me he wanted to marry me i said yes. We were going great in our relationship after he got in the military 5 months later it was good at first but then he started ...

Five years in, do we want out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5053 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - We have been together nearly 5 years and have 3 year old together. Our love is unexplainable...is it lacking passiona nd romance. We go through the motions everyday. I honestly think we are trying too hard, forcing, and not 'seeing' each other in ...

How can I improve my confidence about doing intimate things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is almost 25 and i am 26. We both haven't had sex yet. He goes mad sometimes when i say i don't want to go all the way, although, he apologises afterwards, and he has only gone mad about three times . However, i know he isn't just ...

She hurts me so much and I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

5 July 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfirend for about 8months now. When we started dating she was a sweetheart and was so nice. After the third month she began to fight with me with for just about anything small or big. She would start the fight, get me heated and ...

My girlfriend is pregnant but doesn't want to be with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

5 July 2010 (M) - i been dating this girl for over 2 years,im 21 and she 18.we hust found out in may 2010 that she preg.at first we were thinking of aborting but some how her mom found out.i went to her house about 3 days later n we all sat down her mom,dad,her and ...

How do you stay best friends with someone who you lose respect for??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

5 July 2010 (M) - I know that, really, it is none of my business, but I can't help looking out for my best friend. She is 33 and been single for a few years (some dates, one short-term relationship). We both regard each other as the sibling we never had (we are ...