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writes:I need help! Ok so this is the sittuation. Im in my 20's and iv been with my bf for over 4 years. Everything was PERFECT untill he went on a buisness trip and cheated on me. I called his hotel room to have some B**** answer his phone and tell my she efed him!!! ANYWAYS i forgave him ( i feel stupid about that) and its been 6 months. I dont think he is still cheated and has said sorry and blah blah blah. Well over the weekend i went to Vegas and I met this guy in a club and we hooked up and hungout the WHOLE weekend together. I feel in love with this new person and I dont know what to do. I still love my bf but i feel guilty and dont know what to do. I feel like i can NEVER forgive him for stiking his john in that who**!! please help!! :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): The first thing you have to do is decide whether the relationship with your bf is worth saving. You say everything was perfect, but he wasn't feeling that way because he cheated. Whether he did it because he was unhappy in your relationship or because he's just a horny jerk who can't turn down a piece of free a**, I don't know.
Most couples can't get through infidelity alone. You need counseling and time and a solid commitment to work through it. But your feelings about it seem pretty strong, so it might be a dealbreaker for you. And that's ok.
Either way, don't cheat like he did. End it with him, if that's what you want, and be sure to tell him exactly why. And go slow with your new guy so it isn't a rebound thing and you don't end up getting hurt. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): Time to move on. You are still young and go and enjoy yourself. But do not be a cheater. Tell your bf than your season is over and that you want better.
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