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anonymous
writes:Hi all. im 8 months pregnant and my bf is unemployed at the moment and so stressd out and he never calls me nor text me. weve been together for atleast 10 months now. he was madly in love with me but now he is distant. i feel like dumping him n cutting him out of our lives but i keep calling him all the time. im addicted to him
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reader, Odds  +, writes (5 July 2010):
 You let a guy impregnate you after knowing him for two months... yeah, if he's being "distant" but is still with you, you've gotten incredibly lucky. Most guys would have run the hell away.I doubt he will make a good father, husband, or boyfriend... and being a single mother will make finding a better guy extremely difficult. You shot yourself in the foot, here.The best thing for you, and for your child, is to get some help from your mother raising the kid, and to find a new guy. Cut off all contact, and if he tries to get back with you, *ignore him*. Your first duty is to your child, now. A recovering addict should not expose themselves to the temptation.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (5 July 2010):
 well he might be freaking out about being a dad soon? stop calling him because it might be pushing him away. I'd give him his space and then call him in a week. If he still is ignoring you then march over and tell him thats not okay haha
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