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writes:Hello, I have a really big problem with a boy.br Well I think I love him. All the winter , he was like ignoring me and we were just known. In the summer lessons suddenly he came to me, asked me for my msn and was talking to me all the time. We exchanged msn adresses and stayed up talking till 5 the night. We talked about previous relationships and then we talked about love, gap between lovers...etc. Then I went again to the lesson and we talked again and then in the third lesson, we were talking and were at the lockers room . Then he talked and I ignored him a couple of times just to play hard. And then in 3 the night, he nudged my msn andsent me hearts, kisses and we were talking but also he asked me if I have a boyfriend and that I find one I should show him. Then in monday, he was hidden in the lockers, not talking to me just staying there. And then in the last lesson, he was smiling at me and looking at me and told me I wish my girlfriend was like you and I told him Ooo really? thanks p Then on msn I talked first and he told me he was brekaing up, I was trying to cheer him up but he was sure things would end and I felt very happy. Then, I re-arranged my holidays to leave later and went to the lesson. He talked to me, telling me jokes and then I asked him how he was and told me: Brilliant, I am with my girlfriend again. ANd then with eyes full of tears I replied: Happy for you And I left for summer. It was awful! And then in September I went back refreshed, he smiled at me. br And the winter was like the other winter. p I can't get over him and I can't forget him. This summer nothing has happened and i just feel a really bad dejavu. I need your answer.
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reader, KingOfThron  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 Thats good that you asked if anythign is going on with him and his girlfriend, but you dont want to start with a guy that is going through a brake up, i know you are seeing a good side of him but what he is doing is really bad, like i said befor, the odds are he might/could do the same to you if you ever got together.
The reson i say that you should try not to get into a thing with him is becuase after a bad brake up a guy or a girl looks for something to fill a gap that they have missing, Called a "rebound" and rebound relasonships are really good at the start for the person in your spot becuase you are getting a guy that dont know what he is doing, just went through a brake up and dont want to be singel meaning he will but time into you as much as you want, BUT! after he gets over this rebound its sad to say but that means he is done with you...
You can do Much better, dont worry about this guy :) find something you enjoy doing and the chance is that you will find someone with the same intrest's giving you a really good ice-braker and something you and the other person can talk about trust me it is SO worth doing it this way :)
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Good Luck and stay strong!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am the girl who asked this question.
He is not as abad as he sounds. That girl has cheated on him so many times and when he flirted he was kind of broken up.
I recentrly asked him: But you have a girlfriend right and he said; I am breaking up with her. She is not that into me. I am not that into her.
We were talking on msn for 6 hours the other day. And his body language is like so meaningful.
How can I move on ?
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reader, KingOfThron +, writes (6 July 2010):
AVOID him, one. he has a girlfriend(not your falt) 2ed for a guy to flirt and wish for another girl as he is datting is a really bad sign! think about it, what if that was you and your boyfriend was spending all this time with another girl and saying things like that, it would hurt would it not? and whats not to say if anything do happen that he wont do this to you?
You seem like a nice girl that was just loured in by a guy that wants more then he can have, he is not worth the time trust me you can do better, just think about what he would do to you if he got with you, a guy that jumps for one girl with always do so, so flirting with you then maybe getting with you might be nice till he desides he is borde and try with another girl
he was having hard times becuase he wanted somethign that he didnt have and was comparing you to his girlfriend, he only wants what he dont have and once he has it he is happy then he is fine to move on for him, i know this for a fact becuase i was that type of stupid guy in school till i relised how much heart ack that was for people like you. avoid him you can find a really nice/better guy then that just wait trust me :)
Good luck and stay strong!
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