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Archived questions from: 8 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I leave him alone and go back to my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - ok heres the thing. i am in the middle of a divorce, it will be final in a month. i am most definatly sure that im in love with his childhood best friend. and he says he feels the same way. thing is, he has two kids with a girl i used to go to ...

Why did I lose interest in pleasing my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - He's an amazing guy and I love him and I know he loves me. He still pleases me but when it's my turn I just feel like I'm getting lazy. I don't know why. I don't want to have oral with him but it's not because I'm replused by him. I love everything ...

He didn't want children, suddenly he's gone.

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8 July 2010 (F) - Dating the man of my dreams for six months,he's single age 40,a doctor, adjunct professor,no drama non-cheater,equally cares for me,wonderful!one problem, I'm age 48 and he has no children. I have a 23 year old son. Me and my guy discussed children ...

I am away on vacation and I think my man is cheating.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. We did long distance for a year and 4 months and i moved to arizona to be with him. Our relationship has not been easy because when we met he had just separated and I had to go thru some ...

I just don't feel the same way about her... how do I break up with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend now for just over a year and a half, things started off great, at the time I really did find her attractive and have feelings for her but now I find it has all changed. I just find now I don't feel how I used to ab...

Help!!! Sexually frustrated!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - I'm sexually frustrated, honestly he is not giving me some. I have tried all you can think of, now I want to tell him I'm sexually frustrated, hope I won't ofend him... help what to do?...

My friend's boyfriend is using her to get a green card by marriage!

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8 July 2010 (M) - My friend's boyfriend is using her to get a green card by marriage! The guy is really a user, and manipulator. But, she says that she's so in love with him... What can I do? She won't listen to reason. She says it's real love, but she has only kno...

Why won't she talk to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - My ex girlfriend left me a couple of months ago and refuses to talk to me. We had been dating for nearly a year and a half. We’re both in our early 40’s and have children. The only difference there is that her kids live with her 5 nights a w...

Women ignore me. Are they all just jealous??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - I have met 3 people through Craig's List. I have two young children and wanted to find other moms to meet up with for play dates, etc. One of the moms met up with me 3 times for play dates and she kept saying she wanted to get together and go out ...

He's getting out of the army and I'm not sure I can handle civilian life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - ive been married for 4 years to a soilder. we have been together for 7 yrs altogether and i love him very very much. im 23 and hes 24. my problem is that he is getting out of the military and im not so sure how i feel about this. ive been military ...

Why can't I love the man who loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - i feel trapped between two men. one is my ex husband and other my boyfriend. i have been dating my boyfriend for 3years. we have a 1 year old daugther but i dont love my boyfriend. i told him that so many times but he dont want to leave. as for my ...

My husband won't go to anger management, is it time to divorce?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - My husband gave me an ultimatum last week which was I needed to return home by Thursday otherwise he was going to his scheduled appointment with his attorney to end our marriage. I really need him to go to anger management or something since his ...

Is giving him a marriage ultimatum without communicating with him okay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

8 July 2010 (?) - [OP's original title] I have a boyfriend of 1 year. We have plans of getting married, but whenever we try to discuss, it becomes a hot topic and he is defensive. I have stopped bringing up the issue or contributing when he beings it up cos it make...

I'm that boyfriend who is in an abusive relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - I find it funny how nomatter where I look, I can't find anything on a boyfriend being abused. I am that boyfriend and I am abused. I'm hit occasionally, insulted very often and nagged to death about every single pimple, stray strand of hair, and my ...

If you love someone as much as she says she does me, should she be knowingly hurting me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - I had been dating a girl for about 2 years. A few weeks ago, she told me that she didn't want to be with me anymore because she wanted to go out and learn about her self, not date anyone exclusively right now, and "enjoy the single life". However, ...

Will we ever be able to move forward with our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - ok well just over a year a go i met my boyfriend in a club. I saw him and could not help but smile at him. We had spoken briefly years before on facebook and I recognised him. Immediately I had a feeling that something would happen between us and I ...

He refuses to take my calls, is angry and uspet, but won't give my stuff back! Why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - Hi all, I have been in a relationship for around six weeks with a lovely guy. Alot has happened during that time- and I have met his parents and been on holiday with him.he came on very strong, and his mother told me that he is in love with me. An...

is it worth this to make my self-sacrifice and marry him even I know I won’t have life what I dreamed of?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - I have Muslim bf... almost 3 years we are together, but it can`t be said "together" because we live in different countries, I live in country in the Balkans and he is from Turkey. Our love story began on internet, I even cant describe how it began, ...

Boyfriend doesn't have a car and I have to drive him everywhere

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - okay my situation is this I've been dating this guy Rigo for about a month.Well he lives like 15 minutes away from me.I have a car and he doesn't.So yea when we want to see eachother I have to drive to him.We went on dates and I had to pick him up ...

Should I even try to make this relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - Ok so I met my ex through my best friend because her bf is really good friends with him. We had a connection right away but I put off hanging out with him for awhile because I was unsure about getting into another relationship. But no matter how ...

Why do I still care what my ex-friend says about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

8 July 2010 (?) - An old friend of mine, "Sally" and I had a falling out- our friendship became one-sided and toxic. I was tired of her put-downs and tried to talk it over with her, but nothing helped. She had lunch with a mutual friend "Amy" recently. "Amy" tol...

Nightmares of war keeping us up all night.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 yrs is in the army and has really bad nightmares about what he saw when he was fighting in timo, they're so bad he starts shaking in his sleep and yelling. I don't know what to do when they happen or what to say when he wakes up. ...

My boyfriend of over 1 year didn't get me a birthday present, how do I tell him this bothers me without sounding materialistic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of over 1 year didn't get me a birthday present. It's not the value of the gift or the actual gift that bothers me, it's the fact that he didn't give me anything at all, not even a card. We went out to a casual dinner and he paid, but ...

He loves his religion more than his son and me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - My husband told me that he loves his religion more than my son and I .. what should I do he's a good father and a good husband and we loves him so much????????????...