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How can I make my girlfriend forget this other guy and come back to me?

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Question - (5 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 July 2010)
A male Malta age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi i thank you before answering my question...so i have a girlfriend and we have child and when she was pregnant i passed from a very diffcult time and i wasnt that helpful,apart from that she always liked this guy and now she's liking even more,problem is she never had a chance to start a relationship with.so i need to know how to make her forget this guy and return back to me? thanks.

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (5 July 2010):

Odds agony auntYour question has so little context, it is basically impossible to give a good answer. The grammar doesn't help either.

To give some general advice... Make it clear that you are the father of her child, that your first priority is the kid, and that you will not accept her fooling around if it possibly hurt the kid's chances of having a two loving parents. Be firm, not angry. Let her know that although you are typically a nice, easygoing guy, when it comes to the family, you will not compromise.

It's a sad fact of being a guy, but no matter how justified you were in going through a tought time, seeing that moment of vulnerability from you would have decreased her attraction to you. To help, you need to aovid showing her insecurity over the relationship, and instead see an unwavering committment to the your job as a father. She needs to see you be strong when you have to be.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010):

hi. i'd like to ask, did she just fancy this guy and he didnt like her back, or did they actually date briefly or just text him or something but they didnt continue the relationship for some reason ?.

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