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Archived questions from: 1 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend's actions make me wonder if he is being selfish

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - I am trying to be patient about this.. But, I would like to know how I should be feeling and what not about this. I leave for Texas tomorrow and will be gone away from my boyfriend for 5 days. Yesterday, a friend and I went over to my sisters ho...

My ex wants to get back together, what should I take in to consideration?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - My girlfriend and I broke up last night, it was sweet and delicate, but after fighting regularly we got so tired of it all and decided to call it quits...she wants to move out of state sometime this year and i don't so in a way it took care of the ...

I'm not happy about taking care of this child if it happens to be his.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - My husband had a one night stand way before i met him and she claimed she has his child. he told me about it and i insisted he go for a dna tests because i believe there is a chance its his child and he should take care of him. He is planning to go ...

He's 'refriended' me on FB after I 'defriended' him because of an argument.

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1 July 2010 (F) - Hey everyonee this is a simple thing, i just want to double check... a few months ago i had this argument with this guy, i was pretty immature but then he said some very hurtful things. i defriended him on facebook to give myself some time to...

Why is he always falling out with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - my partner alway seems to find a reason to fall out with me and then blames me for it. the other night he totally ignored me and blamed me for being cold on bed. he said when i'm busy with other things, with family and friends i become distant. i ...

My husband is already married! Did he marry me just for the visa?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - hi please help me. i mmarried a turkish man 15 mths ago, not to give him a visa, wwe are very much in love. well, i think its the same for him but i have my doubts. he;s been refused a visa twice now on the grounds of them not believing we are for ...

I have the feeling he is pulling away...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I really need advice on this as i am going crazy. Maybe overreacting, maybe not but certainly lost ! I have been talking consistently with this guy for almost five months, going out on dates, slept together. He contact me most of ...

I'm totally confused! How do I head in another direction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - I am 44 and having a hard time making a decision . I am very full of life and feel as though I am being held back .I will start by telling you that i am married for 28 yrs even though my husband moved out of our home in feb of 2008 and said he ...

How am I supposed to let him go explore his interest in men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and we are very inlove, happy, and compatible for each other. However,one day in Jan of this year he sat me down and told me very sincerely that he loves me very much and I make him so ...

I never meant to hurt anyone. I just wanted to be loved and he did that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - My life is in deep trouble. I live with a guy 10 years now. We have no romanic relation. We bought a house together as a partnership. He says i am his girlfriend. We act like married people. I don't go out and he does not either. My problem is 5 ...

Do I stop chillin' with them, or make a stand for myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

1 July 2010 (M) - Well, I'm here again. To be honest i never though using dearcupid.com would actually help, but seeing what other people have to go through helps me coupe with some of my own problems in a strange way. I'm writing today about some friends of mine ...

Is there a solution to all of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (M) - I'vr been engaged to a wonderful lady for about 18 months, she is going through menapaue and grew in an alcoholic home. She is the most demanding ,controlling person i've ever met. We aren't speaking right now and our engagment might be over, all ...

He won't talk to me since I texted him while he was in a business meeting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - Ive been with my bestfriend and love for 6 years I'm 28 him 30, he is really a wonderful and great man. Recently he even told my father how Ill be moving to his country for marriage over this year, which we have discussed. He is going through a hard ...

He doesn't love me but he is crazy in love with me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 4 months, it a man who's more mature than me. Last night he said "I love you so much" in french, then he said he didn't mean it. After when we back home, he said he doesn't love me but he is crazy in love with me. ...

He is leaving to go back to Canada and I still have not heard from him, should I wait or just contact him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - So this is a long story. I dont know what to do. I met this guy on a night out about 6 weeks ago. I wasnt looking for anything as Id just had 2 bad experiences in a row. BUT anyway I was drunk and kissed this guy as he was cute. Next thing I know ...

I'm tired of being the bad guy when I am only trying to help her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been living together for 2 years. We were friends first and then she left her boyfriend for me. For the first 6 months or so it was great we were all lovey-dovey and really great together, nothing but happiness. By now ...

What can I do in this situation? She claims to love me but she shows no signs of this at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

1 July 2010 (M) - My partner and i have been together about 2 years now. at the begining my ex partner and 2 children where still living with me until they found a new home but i didnt tell my new partner this as it wasnt a sure thing at the time and even though i...

Why do I have these feelings for another man when I was so sure I loved my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my fiance for two years, yes fiance, I was so sure I loved him more then anything and when Im with him hes all I care about, but when Im gone from him and one of my friends(male) comes around and drops hints he likes me...I feel the ...

What did he mean when he said "I cant keep it up with you"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - ok. what does mean that when guy saying i can't keep it up with you ?i thought it was joking.cause he a bit older than me and im not come from english contry. but it is ture now. i've been dating with him about 5month now. suddenly he didn't taxt ...

From a dream to a nightmare....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - Hi everybody... If I came here to look for help it means that I'm really f*** up at this point... Well I'll try to make the long story short. My and my bf (?) meet up 7 months ago, trough internet. I couldn't belive I'fe founded a guy like him: th...

Two boyfriends and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - I have stupidly wound up in a difficult situation with two boyfriends. One - R - I have been with for a year and a half. R and I are in a polyamorous relationship; all is fine as long as we keep each other in the know. The other - A - has no id...

I know I will end up getting hurt by this married man but part of me wants to know how it would feel to make love to him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - I'm in love with a married man that I have been dating now for two months. we never slept together,but I'm planning on sleeping with him soon. I'm a little afraid because I think I may get hurt.I know the easy thing would be to run away now! but a ...

He says the problems in our relationship are my fault!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - Last night my partner really made me feel like a terrible person. We have had a lot of stress since we moved back in together, his son, money, lack of job (on his part) his mother being an alcoholic, my own chronic illness. He has seemed to just get...

Should I get back with him even though I think I might cheat on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - My ex and i are thinking about getting back together but i feel i get back with him im gonna be unfaithful because the reason we broke up was because he was constantly accusing me and to turn out he was cheating the whole time...and if i get back ...

Should I just ask him if he wants to be more serious? Or am I reading his actions wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - So me and an old fling have been "seeing each other" for the past month.. not weekly.. but here and there. He told me he wanted to date but he doesn't want to get married; on our date he called me babe (never did before) and also said he wants to ...

My partner frequently calls out other women's names in her sleep

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - my partner and i have been together for 7 yrs. and she frequently says another woman's name, not always the same one ,during sleep while she is masturbaing. it may be a co-worker, someone she thinks is attractive, or a patient - she is a pt. this is ...

He cheated because he was drunk and I cant get over it!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months...we started going out sept.7, 2009 and its now June.30, 2010... Back in Feburary he decided to throw a small party when his mother was away and get drunk...( one girl and 4 guys) well ...

Just found out partner is still married and I'm having his baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I am very confused and would like some advice on my relationship with my partner if I am doing the correct thing. My partner and I have been living together for almost a year now we are having a baby next week. I found out a few months ago he ...

I don't remember all that happened and I'm worried my g/f will believe this other troublemaking girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

1 July 2010 (M) - Hi. Ok one night i went out to a party while i had a girlfriend but she could not come. Because i have a girlfriend alot of girls came to talk to me that night. i told them to leave me alone, this one girl approached me multiple times and i told her...

It seems my partner is possesive, forceful and wants me to have a baby even though I'm not ready, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - hi... am really in need for some advice ...have slept with my b/f who is 23 years older then me and actually enjoyed it but since then he is forcing me to move in with him ....when he first asked.. i asked him to give me some time but he is forcing ...

Why is he ignoring me after declaring his love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - well here goes, i'v had a on and off relationship with my ex but always felt it was more one way, i'v always had a soft spot for him and i'v ended every relationship i'v had in the past two years for him, then i finally had enough and told him i had ...

Should I wait for him to say he loves me this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - I told my boyfriend that I loved him 2 months ago but he didn't say it back. I asked him if things were awkward between us about a week later since I had said it to him then and also asked him how he felt about me. He said that he likes me a lot but ...

I don't want to lose him, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - hey there i have a question well,i've been datin my bf for 8 months..but this moth his been acting mess up wth me he accused me of talkin to guys n of seen sum other guys..me n him have no trust when we started dating a month later he cheated on me ...

I want to be a part of my child's life!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

1 July 2010 (M) - Ok, I am going to be completely honest here. I was dating this girl for about 5 months but have known her for almost 8 years and she is now 11 weeks pregnant and we are no longer together. Before we broke up, she moved to west virginia to help out ...

Am I right to feel upset about what my girlfriend did when we were still broken up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

1 July 2010 (M) - I really need some advice here. I broke up with my ex about a year ago. We have kept in contact tho and even sometimes still had sex. We both agreed that we would stay friends and see what happened in the future. I even told her i didnt have anymore ...

I like him but he's a player! How can I get over the boy I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - What can i do to get over this boy i like. He played with my emotions and hurt me so bad. He is a player wth mad game and can get any girl he wants. Some what cocky u can say. i really do like me but he turned to a jerk. We have been talking for ...

He cheated when I was pregnant with my third son with a close friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - Okay so I'm 22 years old I have been married to my husband since I was 16 years old and we have 3 beautifull little boys Unfortatly last year of 2009 I got pregnant with my 3rd son and so around april of 2009 a couple that we had met back in 2006 ...

I think he may be cheating, but I need proof!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - I strongly suspect my husband has, or is about to cheat on me.Pevious posts to this site, and the replies recieved,say my instincts and gut feelings are right! I am absolutely sickened and heartbroken, but I know he will deny all and make me out to ...

Feeling like I don't matter and difficult to speak to my partner. Help please!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5055 days ago

1 July 2010 (M) - im having trouble in my relationship. i've been with my gf for 5 months and whenever we fight i feel that i'm the one apologizing even when its not my fault. when shes upset i ask questions to better understand why she is and how i can do better. ...

He doesn't seem truly happy anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for a little over 5 yrs and recently my man has been acting different, watching online porn secretively and trying to hide it and lie about it, getting attitudes out of nowhere and ignoring me for unknown reasons,seems to ...

Am I unreasonble feeling bad that she sees her ex's without letting me know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

1 July 2010 (M) - Hi, I would be grateful of objective view of my situation. I have been with my partner for 4 years. We are in our early 40s. My partner sees ex's of hers on a fairly regular basis. There are 5 that I know about. She has mostly male friends. I don't...

Should I give up or keep fighting for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

1 July 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend almost 3 years now and she been changing for the worst over the past 20 months. Where she used to be calm and self-assured, she is now insecure and self-loathing. She's become stand-offish and blames or lashed out at me ...