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Archived questions from: 26 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is it a "cop out" to cheat on someone and then not tell them what you did?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Posters Own Title: I've heard so often "I can't tell them I cheated on them b/c it would really hurt them." That seems so hypocritical to me. If this person was so concerned about "hurting" their partner, they probably wouldn't have cheated in the ...

I have just seen a picture of a naked girl on his email....i don't know what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

26 July 2010 (?) - hey guys im so angry right now with my sweetheart, my love and only one boyfriend. i just seen a naked pic of a girl on his email address (deleted) and i dont know what action to take. plz help...

She is sending out such mixed signals.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I have known a woman for going on 12 months now. We met via online dating. Everything was going great she was even talking engagement. But latley over the past month she suddenly says she doesnt know how she feels anymore she says she loves me dea...

Do I need to worry about my boyfriends girl-mate?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been with my bf 5 months now and I know that isnt too long but I really feel strongly about him and things have been pretty perfect until very recently. He was staying over with me the other night when his friend called him up at 450am so...

I don't want to regret having his baby when he can't support us now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi i just turned 28. i have two children that i love dearly an i been with the father of my kids for seven years. im the only one workin an has been for the last two years. my boy frend is a great father to his childrn, witch he has three, my 2 and ...

Problems with girlfriend, she puts her friends first all the time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I really don't know if my problem is unique or not. Probably not but yet, i haven't seen any couples with stuff like this. So anyway, my girlfriend is really a great girl, i love her, i'm prepared to do anythin for her, we've been together for ...

What happened to the loving man I married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My husband swears he is not having an affair, so why does he get defensive and over react to everything I say.? He also avoids making love, and recently has stopped even giving me a 'cuddle' when I ask for one.When I try to talk seriously to him ...

Up until a few months ago, he never mentioned money! I don't know how to react to the change!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (?) - (first of all I'm 19 not 26) My bf of 2 years never ever mentioned money or cost in front of me. Always he tells me "do you want something" and he buys me stuff and all and I always tell him to stop because he is spending to much money and he would ...

How do I get guys to look at me as more than just a one night stand?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Okay so I'm a 18 years old girl, I consider myself as a okay looking girl but I do have a serious problem that just makes my self-esteem really low. I never had a boyfriend. Guys just aren't interested in me (except as a sexual object or something ...

Jealous boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - im in a weird position right now my ex still loves me, and is telling my boyfriend to break up with me cause he is dead jealous... he said if he doesent his gonna hurt my boyfriend.. and me and my boyfriend LOVE eatch other.. i dnt know what to do.. ...

He said we can't be together because we argue too much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I been together for almost 3 years .But lately we have been arguing. For me the argument wasn't a big deal because it was a little argument.When he called me he told me that we can't be together because we argue alot but he told ...

Ready to throw in the towel!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I have known my girlfriend for 15yrs, we have been in a relationship for 6yrs. this month I asked the big question and bought her an engagement ring. My co worker family owns a jewelry store so i bought a second hand ring that has been appraised for ...

I love my fiance and her children but I just don't think this is going to work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, This will probably be a long letter so forgive me in advance. My fiance and I have been together for 11 years. (with a 6 month breakup some 7-8 years ago) and have 2 children together that I love more than anything. For quite...

My boyfriend pays a lot of attention to our roommate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I live together with two other roommates. Whenever the female roommate is around, he gets excited because she is usually at her boyfriend's house. He always tries going by her room to initiate conversation with her. Also, if it is ...

I feel like I should get beaten up to feel better!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - this will sound crazy and its sounds like I have problems I know I do, so some info on this is I want to fight someone really bad because of this girl. she drives me so crazy in a good way and we are just friends but I have made her feel bad and ...

I don't want to hurt my boyfriend or put a strain on our relationship, but I just wish he would understand that my grandmother does need me too

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My grandfather recently died, and now my handicapped, 88 year old grandmother is home by herself. She is of sound mind, and can take care of herself, but she does have a number of health problems that are managed by medicine. Both my grandp...

B/f found out I slept with his friend while we were broken up, says its my responsibility to make him feel better!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend in January, we still loved each other very much, but we couldn't stop arguing and things just weren't working. When I broke up with him he got incredibly angry and cut off all contact with me. I didn't think I would ever ...

Paranoid about losing my g/f and now she has broken things off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Hi guys, my name is James, where do I start? ok, so I have this issue, I have no idea where it comes from, basically I am not sure if it is low self esteem, low confidence, insecure, but I need help and I need help now, I am hoping someone can ...

Girlfriend is secretive and stops me meeting her family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I recently split up with a girfriend who is middle aged, divorced and has two grown up children. She had a 20 year marriage after which she seems to have had numerous brief affairs. We met and got on very well, including sex. But after a while I ...

I tell little white lies to my guy and now there's no trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Okay,lets say i been tellin white lies to my fella for a while now. nothin serious,mostly related to the opposite sex. without goin 2 deep,we split up most times he thinks he finds out,he doesnt knowe,just thinks he has cos jealous people tell him ...

Is my partner correct to want me to ask for his permission to answer the phone late at night?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - 22.15hrs I was having a talk with my partner about an important matter to us both. My mobile phone rang in the room next door, and he got up first to fetch it and brought it to me for me to answer which I did. It was a short message from a friend. ...

I feel like his sex doll! How do I talk to him about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - hi, I need your help please, I have been with my bf 4 months ago but I know him for a long time, I ve lost my virginity with him last year and we are having sex now after we came back together but the problem is that he doesn't care about me when we ...

Does she like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Ok I'm 22 was in a four year relationship and broke it off due to trust issues in past. Well I started talking to this girl I known for about 4 years I told her I liked her and she said she did too. we have been talking for 2 months and I really ...

We have onlý been married for 9 months and I feel like we already need to seek help!

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26 July 2010 (F) - Married my husband after 2 1/2 yrs of dating (also dated in Highschool for 1 1/2 yrs). He and I are opposites in every way shape and form. It's starting to get hard to deal with because we have VERY LITTLE in common. I ask him to grocery shop with ...

I love my boyfriend and our life together, but why should I pay for his friend's mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is planning on proposing to me next month. We live together in his house, with his two kids who I love dearly. Here's the problem - his best friend is 31 years old, and just got a DUI and will be losing his license and will have to pay ...

My soon to be ex wife wants us to be friends and have sex...but part of me thinks it is wrong. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - My soon to be ex wife has very firmly indicated she wants to have sex with me and keep me as her fuck buddy while she is single and has "the need". The irony of this is, she almost never asked for sex during our marriage, and in fact, the lack of ...

Is my boyfriend's behaviour getting weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Would like to get some opinions on whether my boyfriend's are normal We have been together for 2 months. He only kissed me lightly on the lips ONCE and most of the time he wanted me to neck him and to stroke his penis. There were also times when ...

He wants to go on a break!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - i have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year. he is 6 years older than me. iam 20. he lives on his own with a housemate while i live with my parents and study full time. this is my final year and because of that, i have a curfew during ...

I'm still married to the man that molested my daughter!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I am married now for 33 years. I thought i was the luckiest woman alive! Happy family 3 sons and a daughter and a wonderful husband. A year ago i found out that my husband molested my daughter since she was 3 years old. She is now 25. S...

My boyfriend deleted his Facebook profile! Was this because or me or because he doesn't use it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - This is gonna sound silly but I recently changed my profile status on FB to "in a relationship".. i didnt say who i was in a relationship w/ even though my bf is in my friends list. So today i changed it to him..and it said it was gonna send a ...

Still in love with her despite my broken heart.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - My girl had been talk to a guy for the pass 2years and said its just her friend. i dont mind it at all but he texts her and calls her a lot i ask iher if is something going on between them she said no. Until today she told me she has stong feelings ...

How can I show him my good side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - How can you convince someone you're not as they think ? Well i have a problem the father of my baby thinks im dull, boring, that im a bitch that always asks stupid questions and that i never know what to say. Yes im not perfect but im sure im not ...

Friends or lovers? does he like me as a friend or is it something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hey boys I’m gonna try and make this quick but this is the situation: I had this male friend and we were friends for a couple of months…about 5 I wanna say. Then he admitted to liking me but it was long distance all along and he had quite a few ...

I've let things go too far with my married former teacher, how can I change things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I am currently in a relationship with my teacher from high school, though I am no longer in high school. I am almost 20 years old, and I think I have fallen deeply for this man. I can tell him anything, and we talk for hours about nothing and ...

Ladies, can you shed some light on what a "special friend" is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Throughout my life, at any given time, I have my guy friends who I hang out with, friends who are girls who I have casual conversations/flirt/hang out with, and then there is one special girl who I am open with and want a relationship with. The ...

How I can get my boyfriend to respect me more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hey guys I've been struggling with this for a while.. My boyfriend doesnt respect me. Its hard because I moved in with him a while ago and due to some circumstances I have nowhere else to live. The other day he posted about 9 posters of girls...

My friends, family and kids don't like the man I love and they refuse to get to know him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - i am a divorced 50 year old mother of 3....am in love with a man that no one, my kids, my ex or my friends like, even thought they refuse to get to know him. what do i do?...

When men say “do what makes you happy” do they really mean it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - When men say “do what makes you happy” do they really mean it? For a example - I asked my boyfriends opinion about dying my hair… ‘cos he said he loves my hair, and I wanted to be sure he’d be okay with it. I wasn’t asking his permission, just...

WHY does he flirt and talk dirty? I give him all the sex and love he needs!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I give my husband all the sex and love he needs, but for some reason he always flirts and talks dirty to mutual friends, family members and w/ me all the time. His topics are always about sex, please help me to understand WHY?????...

We are either the perfect couple, or we are in a fight leading to a split. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - My relationship seems like its really up and down. We are either the perfect couple, or we have a fight where one of us wants to break up. But the thing is that each time its a new fight, so once we fight we don't fight about that same topic again, ...

You have to have some rainy days to enjoy the sunny ones?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Hello all . Today I had a vision . shall we say . and I want to know if any girls or guys of any age would agree with this . and some would even say this is the way it always happens. Ive always always always said . I have to be physically ...

Did I really choose my boyfriend over my best friend? And If so why is that bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Did I really choose my Boyfriend over my best friend? And If so why is that bad? Soo, My Friends (Guys) and My Boyfriend have a very .... Crud sexually sense of humor sometimes. They know how to joke around and so do I. Sometimes we'll ...

21 year old virgin loser, never been kissed by a sober guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi im a 21 year old female virgin (almost 22 soon) i never had a real relationship and i never been on a date... i have madeout with guys but everytime ive been kissed was by my guy friends who were drunk/horny. i imagine that since they were drunk ...

My marriage and my husband are boring me to pieces, what can I do, give up??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My God. The boredom I am feeling these days is unrelenting. Well - I have been married to my husband for 2.5 years and we dated for 10 months before that. We were BEST OF FRIENDS and we got along famously. I've had better bedbuddies - but I ...

He seems confused, he loves me, he doesn't, any suggestions as to why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - i have been dating this guy for over a year now and he says he doesn't love me, but the strange thing is he said " i love you" first, so finally I got the courage to ask him why he doesn't love me anymore, and he said it's because we had sex to ...

I need help with my marriage, too many changes. any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I am experiencing some extremely ridiculous conflict with my husband, and am deeply confused by this, perhaps because it is a very odd argument. So, I would appreciate some insight. Thanks in advance. My husband and I have always had a roller coa...

I guess he is the one who got away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - dear everyone, this is a strange story.. I met my ex-boyfriend through a mutual friend. We were very young. I was 17 and he was 19. We started dating and broke up after a month because.. we were just too young and lived 2 hours away from each o...

What if I'm just the rebound from his ex? And I broke up with my boyfriend for him? Help!

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26 July 2010 (F) - Hey Guys. Please read everything and give me advice! Ive been with this guy for about 7 months. We are very much in love. No doubt on that! We lost our virginty to eachother.. But about 2 days before me and him had gotten together he broke up with ...