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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

If a man is unhappy in a relationship, does this mean he will start to look at other women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - If a married man's body language is lusting after me yet he is being very professional in his approach towards me - does this mean there may be a problem in his relationship? One of my old work colleagues has a sincere attraction towards me. I a...

Why is my cousin and his mother so nasty to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - why is he and his mother so nasty ? ok guys heres my problem . my family split years ago i never knew my aunt or uncles children ( my cousins ) until i was about nine years old . Sandra ( uncles daughter) came across to me as really nast...

Does this old friend want to destroy everything I have?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Well an old friend knew I was having relationship problems with the guy i was with back in september and took advantage of me being weak and we ended up sleeping together. But now he's going around telling people that I planned us having sex ever ...

I feel like a fool. Has he changed or was he always like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - what can i do i feel a complete fool i really like a guy at work and thought we were close friends or at least he gave me that impression. he used to call me several times a night and i didnt have much confidence after coming out of a really b...

My husband wants to work on our marriage but I'm scare of his old habits

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Hi there, I have been with my current hubby for 10 years and have a 10 year old son together. During this time he was emotionally and verbally abusive to myself and my other 4 children. 7 months ago I made him leave. During this time he sought ...

I lied and told her I was involved when I'm not but I don't want her to hurt me again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - I just need a reality check here, to make sure I'm not being an idiot. A year ago I started an affair with a woman. We were both married at the time. Shortly after we met, my wife and I decided to separate, and I kept seeing this other woman. She...

He's so wonderful but he's not fulfilling my needs!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - So, about a year and a half ago my husband passed away in a tragic accident, I was left with three young children (FYI-I was 34 at the time). I panicked and quickly dated out of fear of the "unknown", and I wanted to put the pieces back together, so ...

I'm afraid I'm driving my guy to lie to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - I'm afraid that I'm driving my guy to lie to me. I know I freak out about a lot of things, but we are considering having children soon and I want to instill good values in them. My opinion is that we should completely cut out the bad things until ...

Why is he nice only when he needs me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - i was very close friends with a guy at work and we got on so well and were best friends. ive helped him through all his work tests and helped him through personal stuff. lately he barely calls. hes got very cocky since his confidence has grown and i ...

Am I crazy for getting upset about him adding my cousin on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - So there is this boy and we've had an off and on relationship but i really care about him. We just got back together like a couple days ago, well we agreed on it because we don't see eachother much, so the next time we see other we'll make it ...

Someone sent my partner a text saying I'm sleeping around but I'm not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - Hey dealt don't no what to do as me and my partner who is 4mnts pregnant with our first are falling apart and I really don't want to loose her two days ago my partner got a text saying in sleeping with your boyfriend no name gave or evidence or ...

Catholic n muslim relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - Am in love with a muslim girl.we have been datin for 2 years now and we are very compatible.I love her as a muslim and will never want to convert her but she says as much as her heart wants me her mind is comited to the family.part of her family ...

I'm pregnant and he cheated on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Iv been with my fella for 2years now! We planned to have a baby we were engaged it didn't seem to happen tho so we had a baby¤making cooling off time. Then I began to feel odd argumentative sick ect he suspected I was pregnant and bought me a test ...

Should we go to his brother's wedding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - I need help... My boyfriend and his brother have not spoken in a year and a half and now his brother is getting married in a month. He has not asked him to be the best man or anything. should we still go to the wedding??...

Why does my boyfriend tell me he loves me but does not want me back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Im 20 and so is my (ex)boyfriend. My boyfriend of nearly 3 years broke up with me a month ago. To be honest, I dont know why. We had lots of arguments and fell out but we would always get back together again because we love each other so much. ...

I want to go to his country and marry him but I don't know how to do it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - hi i was with a kurdish man 4 near 3 years,he was an reffugee,was given work permit,[had a job] was FORCED DEPORTAION on 16th june 2010,im broken hearted,i want to no how i go about goin to iraq and getting married to him,im from uk, thanking ...

Boyfriend has a gambling problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Hello, I've been with my bf almost 2 years. He is very expressive and tells me how much he loves me frequently. He always tells me he wants to get married and be with me forever. Here's the dark side he has a gambling problem always swears h...

Her stories about her "male friends" keep changing!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - Been with my mate for nearly a year now. She's a wonderful woman, we are both middle age, I am divorced, she has not been...no kids. She says she's been with 4 partners sexually before me, with a few instances of oral sex through her 20's. She ...

He knows I lied about my age, Now I'm kinda embarassed to talk to him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - So me and this guy online have been talking for 2 in a half months, we arent going out online because we dont beleive in that. But we just talk to eachother alot. And uhmm He's 16, and i'm 15, but i told him i was 16. I've been telling people i was ...

B/f mad because when I can't get him I text his friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my Boyfriend for over 2 years now and recently argueing Non stop. Its his birthday today but saturday night i cudnt get hold of him so txt one of his mates ( he is very hard to get hold of especially when hes with his friends and i ...

Should I be worried about her sexual past

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - I've recently found out some things from my girlfriend of nearly a year's sexual history which have made me think. I'm 23 and she's 30. We met and she was married, we started out having an affair and very quickly she separated from her husband and ...

The Rock, the Hard Place and the One in Between

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - I have a girlfriend. I have been with her for over four years. In all that time, it seems like we have never gotten through a day without a fight over something. I was already at my breaking point when I met the other girl. I met her through my ...

My girlfriend is lazy and a bitch !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - i dont kno how to put this but im 23 year old i work my ass everyday and my girlfriend she is such a bitch to everyone and shes lazy always and she always goes out and leaves the baby with me and should i just move on with my live and find someone ...

Has anyone else ever experienced this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - Hello. My current girlfriend has been very honest with me about telling me of her past. Keeping it simple, she's put it around a fair bit. I was relatively okay with this until recently when she informed me she'd slept with 50+ guys and that one of ...

He kissed another girl, how do I get past it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - what am i supposed to do, to get over my boyfriend kissing another girl, when we were in a very serious relationship? i've been trying to get passed it, since it happened; and i can't seem to get over it, and i can't trust that he won't do it again. ...

Why does my man look more at women now than before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Hello I have been reading up on the threds about why men really look at other women when they are in a relationship! Due to the fact that this problem is happening more and more frequently with my man on an everyday basis and it makes me w...

I'm annoyed with my boyfriend of 3 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note: Original Title Hello everyone. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I love him to death. I'm 20 years of age and he's 24. Sometimes I get annoyed with him because I feel like my feelings aren't important. I'm always waiting on h...

He just stopped talking to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - so the guy i was dating for 7 months just out of the blue stopped talking to me... it all started when one weekend he went to get his stuff from his ex that he was with for almost four years (they havent seen eachother in 9 months or have even ...

Should I go ahead and tell the babies real father its his or just let it go as is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - I dated a guy for almost 3 yrs. Things got rocky between us. I met someone else at college. Me and this new guy dated for about a month. I got pregnant by him. He started acting mean with me. He said he wanted to take a break. I insisted that we ...

My boyfriend worries too much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - This past November my friend convinced me to join a dating website, knowing I didn't have enough time to find someone with so much to do for work and college. Soon after I got a message from a shy, quiet PhD student at a local Ivy League school. We ...

Next time I want to be more confident and befriend him and his friends, whoever the next guy is.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - I was wondering what his friends reactions meant. this was before things got awkward. Or while. haha. When we were flirting: -his friends would notice me but never speak to me. -they would get really silent when we would talk to one another and...