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Archived questions from: 15 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do I love him or am I just settling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - So here is my story, I am 26 years old and my boyfriend of two years is 38. I am well educated, as are all my friends. My boyfriend , however, is a complete opposite. He never went to college and he has a really bad job that doesn't pay anything. ...

Dr. sent me home to rest I was very ill but b/f went out and left me alone and didn't even check up on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I just want some opinions on whether I have the right to be annoyed with my boyfriend or whether I am being a typical girl and overreacting. Ive been with my partner for almost 3 years and we live together and are both in our mid twenties. The ot...

He has problems, borrows my money, has fits of anger, is this worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Wondering if my boyfriend is going to be worth all the trouble he is causing. He's been in jail because his xwife lied, in court, about him sexually abusing his kids. He's had addictions up until a few years ago which have also gotten him in trouble ...

Why do my gf's stories change over time, is she hiding more??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - I am having issues with my GF of 10 months gradually revealing things to me that are a bit worrisome. She has gradually increased the extent of stories about her romantic and sexual past. Guys that she once said she never touched, suddenly became ...

He calls me fat and a bitch, stress over money and other things, any suggestions to peace??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I am 26 years old and I have been married for 2 years now and have been together with my husband for almost 4 years now. We have had plenty of split up and make ups. I have a 6 year old son from a previous marriage and my husband and I have a 5 ...

I thought we had a deep love, now he's gone, think he'll come back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Hello Everyone, i would like to ask your opinions even though i already have my idea of this whole. A week ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months. I know it was not a long time, but we were friends, very close friends before, so we kn...

Why does my girlfriend suddenly want a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, my girlfriend and I are currently on a break. A bit of background, we've been together 1 year 2 months and we had a very very happy relationship together. She's told me before that I'm the one for her and I feel the same way too, and ...

I slept with his brother years ago and now my b/f can't get past it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. We have our rough times but love each other very much. We live in a small town, where we both grew up, and know each other's families. Years before I met/began dating him, I met his older ...

I feel my life is passing me by... I'm at the end of my tether in this relationship, advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - I'm currently at the end of my tether with my relationship with my girlfriend. I'm 25, she's 26. She has two kids, a 9 year old girl and an 18 month year old son, both to different Dads. We've been together for two years now, but in the last ...

Is there any way to get my ex to talk to me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - so currently i feel like crawling into a hole and never coming out... i feel like i've stuffed everything up and there's no way in hell it's ever going to be fixed. i got dumped, by text and with no explanation by the first guy i've ever actual...

What is it she wants? And how do I last the next few weeks before our arranged "date"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Hi there, Basically ill try and keep this brief. Me and my now ex girlfriend were having problems for the last 4 weeks or so and just last week it came to a head, we were in a bar catching up with an old friend when everything blew up. We basicall...

She still loves the father of her child! I love them both but I don't want to be second best....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Hi i have been with my gf for a year now and she is my world, she has a little girl of 7 months who i treat as my own. last night when putting the baby to bed i found a bit of paper on the floor and I read it, it was the start of a diary sa...

Should I end it? Or make it last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - 3 Year's ago, I met an amazing girl, and after what...a month, we were basicly in love, and through the first year we were on and off, it had to be secret because she didnt want people to know she was gay. Eventully, she finally came out with it, so ...

Is he really looking for a job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy about 2 months ago from the day we met we hit it off . The only thing stoping me to let my guard down and move it to the next level is he doesn't have a JOB ! I have ask him why he don't have a job he told me he has been looking and ...

His lifestyle is making sex almost non-existant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Hi everybody, I am currently traveling Australia. While I was doing 3 months farm work to get my visa extention I met a guy and we fell for each other. We planned to travel together around Australia and set in place a plan. At first the sex was ...

My older lover is very sick, should I marry him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

15 July 2010 (?) - I'm a successful, almost 22-year-old woman. The love of my life is 61. Please, no gasping. I met him when I was a child, in passing, when he was only 46, and I a mere seven or so. He quietly watched me grow and change through my childhood. He was ...

I just feel like I'm hanging around for him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together a year and 3 months. Recently we broke up for two weeks. He came to me begging for forgiveness and said he would change for me and do anything. It has been a while and I haven't seen any change from what he use...

Is this really a healthy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - So, ive written a little before. My boyfriend and i have been together for 1 yr and 4 months. I just am not sexually attracted to him like i used to be. i love him, but i just feel like i can do better. is it normal to feel like ure settling? i dont ...

Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.

This question has 59 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...

Does he sound trustworthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Hi guys. Please help me!! My boyfriend is in out of town right now. He is Puerto Rican. He went back to his town to visit and he gonna comeback August 10. Last night he told me he gonna go to bar with his uncle and his cousin. He don't come back ...

We have never celebrated our wedding anniversary - any ideas on how to start?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - This day in time people do not take marriage seriously or treasure the moment of being with someone for the rest of our lives. Well I am that old time thinker that love is romatic but the man I have been with for the last 7 years does not think ...

Am I doing the right thing by saying 'enough is enough'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - i been with my boyfriend for 4years now.. we decided to move in 2gether wen i was 6mnths pregnant and the problem started wen i gave birth. he'd take all the money and gamble it and leave us with nothing for the whole week .. we both dont work s...

How do I rekindle my boyfriend's love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Hello, i need some advice from guys preferably but girls you can help too.. Well im trying to get my current boyfriend to fall for me again. We have a 2wk old baby . We were seperated for almost 2mths towards the end of my pregnancy he tells me...

Is it too late to call off the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - i'm 28 years old. i think i got myself into a situation. the person i married isn't very loving, very selfish and complains when he actually has to do something for someone that is sick, me. i am so mad at myself for putting myself into this ...

After a miscarriage my girlfriend is devastated and drifting away. How do I fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year now and we just seem to be drifting apart. We found out in April that we were going to be parents and that she was nearly two months gone. We were so happy that we were going to be parents and we ...

When she goes away, she gets strange and distant, anybody have a clue??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Hi all. I've been dating this girl for about a year now. I am 26 she's 18. She lives and goes to school in my town, but her hometown is about 40km away. Problem is this, as long as we are in the same city our relationship is doing just fine but ...

She has issues that make the relationship difficult, keep trying or move on??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend has a lot of issues that have always messed with me to a certain degree. I basically know nothing about her personal life ( we have been with each other only for about 4 months), besides the two of us. I know a friend's name, her ...