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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

FWB sometimes he's sweet, sometimes he's not

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - first of all I'm 16 NOT 13. Okay. So I've been friends with benifits with this guy for like 2 years..and yes I like him alot..I never told him though cuz I didn't wanna make anything weird..this guy is a major player but when he likes someone he's ...

I want to work in porn but am worried about my boyfriend, its not fair!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I need help!?! With all the pressure from everyone asking what am I going to do with my life after I graduate high school I had no idea and I talked to my bf about working in porn because it seemed like something I would enjoy and get paid well for. ...

I don't know if it's worth working this out...he slept with my "best friend" and she is pregnant with "his" child....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Okay. So i've been with my boyfriend for 11 months now, and have recently found out he was sleeping with my ex best friend for a good six months of our relationship, on and off. The whole reason me and the girl fell out was because she was sleeping ...

How can I sort this out? Or rather can I sort this out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hey... hope it's okay to post this here. I am in a horrible situation with the guy I am dating and I just wanted to hear what you guys thought of it. It's making me so sad and I just want to sort it out, but I don't know how. I met J about a mo...

I don't want to carry on like this so do I tell him how I feel or just ignore any contact that he makes in future.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I met a guy 5 months ago in a bar we got on really well and i ended up taking him back to my place and having sex with him. We then saw each other again 2 days later and had a great time together. But when he went back home he sent me a text saying ...

Holiday romance or real love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - i went to turkey for the first time on holiday with my mum and dad. we went to this family bar, and i knew that one of the staff fancied me. he made me a paper rose, and then asked to slow dance with me. the next night he bought me a rose and on my ...

How can I let this go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been seeing one another for 10 (ten) months now. I love him to bits, and everyone and anyone can see how head over heels I am for him. The only problem is I feel very insecure, because of something that happened in the ...

Our relationship is on the line... how can we get close again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hi all :) Over the past 2 weeks me and my boyfriend have been arguing quite a lot. I've been putting it down to not seeing him as often as i want to, but he doesnt agree. We've been arguing over so many things, he thinks i dont love him, he thinks i...

Why this coldness all of a sudden? Is she going off me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Okay so recently my girlfriend has stopped saying I love you and hardly saying any cute.. like not making an effort you know? I mean I just check some text from 5 days ago and it's filled with: I love you's, forever, can't wait, wanna c u again. ...

I found messages to other women yet he says he loves ME!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend always tells me how much he loves me and we will be together forever but I found some messages he has sent to other girls when he's drunk saying they're hot or look good or just asking to chat. I did trust him but now I'm having doubts, ...

Our trust and love is all down the drain... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - For 2 years, my boyfriend and i has been through a lot. From cheating, to numinous of lies and dishonest but some how we manage to overcome those things and still love each other. A few weeks before our 2 year anniversary, he broke up with me. At ...

I feel there is no humanly possible way to keep her satisfied and help her!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Hello, I am new to this site and joined it because well, I feel like I no longer have anyone else. I can't talk to anyone about how I feel or what is going on in my life. Especially my love life. I have been going out this this girl for about a ...

Letting go of an emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - ... How do I mend a broken heart after being in an abusive relationship and still caring for that person when they have moved on? He's 24, I'm 22. I have known him nearly 10 years now. He gave me my first kiss when I was 13 but we stopped talking ...

My husband is a madman when he's angry!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - hi, i am 23 yrs old and have been married for 3yrs.. my husband is a very nice person, he's loving, caring and loves me alot but when he's angry he gets violent.. he dont let me speak in front of him, he says i have to shut my mouth just because i ...

I'm losing hope for this relationship everyday!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend met 15 months ago online when he was in iraq. After a month of talking (i know it was early) but we declared we were in a relationship. He was due to fly home in another 3 months so we were gunna meet when he returned. Two ...

I can wait for him to come back but not wait from him to leave me for someone while I'm waiting.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My question is about the army. I don't really know that much about it and the guy that I'm with loves it he has been in it for a long time and recently got deployed. It has been hard enough not talkin to him for weeks but idk if I can trust him. ...

My boyfriend doesn't make any special efforts to make me happy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - hey all, I m in a weird situation n dnt knw wat to do. My boyfriend and I love each other and I know he cares a lot for me.But he is weird in many respects. Like he will not make any special effort to amke me happy. On my b'day this year..ofco...

Sex isn't that great and I'm looking at pretty girls but I have a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Hi im 38 years old and my girlfriend is 25 years old we have been together more than four years the age different is not a problem for us i love her and she loves me she is my best friend i can see us have kids together and get old together sex is ...

I have to follow my heart and be with my love but I have a husband!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I am married to a fantastic man and 2 beautiful children. My husband has been working alot, we are trying to save money to buy a house so we are in a rental now and it seems this is the hardest time for us. It is like we just co-exist in the same ...

I don't know what went wrong!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - well..this particular guy was so keen on wooing me and at last i fell for him and the relationship went good for 3 years..but now he's trying to avoid me at all cost.He doesn't even care to look at me.Can somebody help me on what went wrong?...

I wonder, how long does it take a man to fall in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I've only been in one serious relationship which lasted three years and my ex and I told each other "I love you" within a few weeks and meant it. We went through a lot during our time together and were always there for each other...we only ended ...

My girlfriend had an encounter with my friend before she met me and I cant seem to get over it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months now and things are going amazingly way. I met her at college so we are currently doing the long distance thing until we go back to school in the Fall. The whole experience has made us a lot ...

I really like his friendship but not attracted to him sexually, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I've been going out with a guy for over a year, and we get along pretty good, and have a lot of the same interests. However, I have never been sexually attracted to him. I was at first, until I realized the sex was not very good at all. The ...

My boyfriend is really controlling but I cant dump him because I have been with him for too long!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - i have been going out with my boyfriend for more than two years now and at first he was good but now he is controlling me. its that bad i cant go on the computer, msn, have facebook or even look and listen to boys on tv! i cant have boy mates or ...

What can I do to improve our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend seems to care less and less about our relationship for some time now.. I've broken the trust in the relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years before by lying constantly and he told me frankly that he could no longer fully trust me, or ...

He hits me when he is drunk....how long should I ignore him for this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - my bf hit me once drunk...because i went out with a "slut" for a party..he was scared i'll turn into her pretty insecure bf there..but the fact that he hit me wasnt good.i stopped talking for a week and he came back begging for me..so i got back ...

Should I ask her these questions I have about the future or is it too soon?

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12 July 2010 (M) - Hi All, I am 30 years old, its been 8 months that i got out of a unhappy marriage, about 5 months ago i met this girl that i now totaly adore and love, initially when we started getting serious she did tell me that she at one point was lesbia...

Do I wait for her to choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - I've been in a on and off relationship for close to 10 years which started in College. Most of the offs were my fault. The last time we got back together 2 years ago I thought things had been really going well. I proposed about a year ago and ...

Should I divorce this man who does not seem to love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My problem is this: I am married to a kind, caring man. He is respectful and wants to take care of me and our child (materialistically that is). The main problem is that he shows no affection, does not say he loves me unless I say it first, doesn't ...

I've loved him for 3 years but now he is married, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - hi please help me im in love someone last 3 years he also love me lots but last 2 month he get married another girl but cant stop relation with me. also i am also not stopped this relation with me and him but now i feel very bad because i dont w...

Why did he flirt with me then all of a sudden leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - i'm really confused and my heart has been really broken please help.my sister told me about a guy that was into me and that wanted to get to know me i saw him at a club once i thought he knew who i was thinking my sister showed him pictures of me i ...

They are divorced, she is re-marrying, so why is he still so involved with his ex wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My bloke got divorced after 25 years because he was very unhappy and we got together again having been childhood sweethearts. He didn’t allow himself the time to recover from his marriage but rather jumped straight from one thing to the other. As ...

He hasn't said he loves me yet, am I just a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - he hasn't said he loves me am I a fool? I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months going strong. Before that we met in January and went out 6-7 times and broke up for a month cos he was unsure if he wanted to commit to our relationship. He...

What's going through his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I have been in an on and off relationship with one of my long time guy friends. After one of the breakups I realized I loved him. Not just stupid teen love where you think you do. I love everything about him even his flaws I can trust him 100 ...

I'm scared my boyfriend will cheat on me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and hes the first guy who hasnt cheated on me. I really love him and our sex life is great, but he smokes pot and lies alot. We always argue. He almost broke up with me because he said he didnt ...

My girlfriend cheated on me, and I can't seem to get over it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend of 8 months cheated on me and I haven't been able to deal with it very well. She told me on our 8 month anniversary that she went to a bar, a guy bought her drinks and she got really drunk. She ended up sleeping with him. I brok...

My boyfriend proposed to me, but I have feelings for someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I am committed since last 5 years, but just realized i was just fulfilling a commitment and am now in love with the other guy.Please help! I have always stick to the belief that i love the person in my life and i as a girl wanted to give him happ...

He lies all the time! Should we stay together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My fiance lies to me on a regular basis, I can tell when he is lying and when I confront him he tries to turn it around on me. We argue about it and then he admits he lied and promises he wont do it again. Then a week later he lies to me again. I ...

Do I walk or do I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now and we have never so much as even had a fight. He has been very busy with work and other obligations so we have only been able to see each other about once a week, which was fine because we ...

Should I tell my friend I dislike her new boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My friend has been dating this guy for a little over five months. Ive never met him, but from what she tells me, i dont like him. he is like 3 years older than here. He does drugs, and has been in trouble with cops a time or two, and he hurts her ...

I humiliated my partner in front of her kids, now she wont speak to me! I know I was wrong, but how can I make this better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - I embarrassd my lady of 3yrs in front of her house with her kids being there...it was so wrong...she is ten weeks pregnant with our baby and for the last 2 days she wont reply talk or text me back...she's bipolar and can't take meds, pls give me ...

Torn between two "Loves of my Life"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I have been in an "off and on relationship" for 10 years with Bill. Bill and I met in college and have a tumultuous past (he always did the breaking up), but we always seemed to fall back in love with each other. The last time we got together was ...

She's shy about showing me her lady parts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - ok so me and my gf have been together for 7 months now and we are beyond the sexual level of our relationship...well just lately i been having an issue because she wont show me her LADY part (vagina), now thats not the problem. The problem is ...

Diagnosed as bi-polar following an abusive relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (?) - I was in an abusive relationship for two years, and shortly after I was diagnosed as being bipolar.....a result of severe emotional trauma by my ex. my question is, how do I tell the man I love about this, without judgement?? I'm scared to get close ...