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Archived questions from: 17 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Constant arguing, need help please

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half we are 20 years old and are planning to get married in the next two years. The only problem is that we fight a lot, they start off small and turn into huge fights. We have broken up so many ...

He keeps making me wait for his calls! Should I stay or leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I was waiting for my boyfriend to call one time and he didnt. Before that day, we agreed that he would call me at a certain time which he didnt do. I had to wait for a couple of hours and I ended up calling him. I had to make sure that I double ...

Does he miss his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for over a year now and ever since we been together, whenever he sees his ex gf walkin around the neighboorhood or notices her car around the city, he always tells me "there goes your bestfriend" , and its like he notices ...

Why did she dump me on Facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - Okay, okay. Seems that my 4 month rocky relationship ended. Although, how is a lil surprising, and schocking to me. First of all, I am not a fan of texting, and that was our means of communicating. facebook, is also a detriment to the relationship. ...

It bugs the crap out of me that he blocked me on Facebook!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - He was flirting and I knew he didn't want anything serious but he freaked out as he got closer to me and blocked me off, changing his status to "having no regrets" I found out from a friend in class who was one of the ppl who noticed how he paid ...

Why is she so unsure about us now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend now for almost a year and a half. She means the world to me, and she's my first real girlfriend. Things have always been good until lately. She always tells me that she loves me, and she used to be quite ...

A guy who can't stop staring inappropriately at other women

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - I have a problem. I started dating an amazing woman approximately 5 months ago. I'm very much in love.I'm a 38 yr. old male (divorced 9 months ago) I looked at a couple other posts on this subject, but wanted to provide my story and hopefully get ...

I think my g/f is holding something back how do I get her to open up to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - My gf and I have been together almost 4 years we broke up and now have been back together for about a month now. But I have this deep gut feeling that she talks to other guys and holds things from me. I hardly know about her friends thats he talks ...

I'm not happy in my marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I am living in an unhappy marriage. We have been married for 10 years and have a beautiful little boy, who was born just before we got married. I guess my unhappiness began a couple of years after we got married. I was finishing school and he was ...

How do I know if it is worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* Background: i just got out of a 14 yr abusive marraige and ended up re-connecting with an old friend - we hit it off perfectly and became lovers. When we are together it is the most wonderful feeling. I have never felt lov...

He'd rather text strangers than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of a month often goes away on business trips but he's not very good at keeping in touch while away (even though he says he will). 3 days ago I sent him a text to see if he's ok...he didn't reply anything. After 2 days of no rep...

I'm 15 and my boyfriend has jealousy, drinking, anger management, trust issues, and more...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - im 15 and me and my bf have only been dating 2 months, but we both fell inlove realy fast, but he gets jelous so easy i cant even mention another guys name without him getting realy angry at me!!! he has anger management issues and i realy try to ...

I wonder why my ex can be so nice to his new girlfriend, while I am just someone he cheated on and dumped.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I recently met up with a friend of my ex whom i broke up with almost a year ago. He has cheated on me with another girl who is currently still his girlfriend. His friend said that they have just bought an apartment together. The first thing that ...

How can I make her feel lucky and not trapped in our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 4 years. She recently broke up with me. She says she always feels trapped and "obligated" to talk to me. She's broken up with me in the past (about 3times). Everytime she does she says she "needs ...

Is what he did acceptable? Am I just being immature? I feel so sad and annoyed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - on friday night my boyfriend and i hung out and had dinner. he told me on thursday that he might be going out but wasnt sure yet. when he picked me up on friday he was very indecisive the whole night, and kept asking me 'should i go out?' he asked...

She says we'll never go out again, so why is she sending me these messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - (MOD NOTE: Two questions have been posted as one) 1-Okay everybody I have a real problem. There's this girl that says well never go out again and I told her that its too hard to just be friends with someone I was in love with. She tells me the next...

How does a limited divorce benefit her? Is she trying to scare me or send me a message?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - After months of seperating and getting back together, she filed for a "limited divorce" when I went to my attorney to reply to her motion he called her lawyer and told him that I wasn't interested in a divorce, that I loved this woman and I was ...

I felt unimportant to him and he hurt me so much. I don't understand why he even called me in the first place

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - So, I'll try to summarize this as best I can. I dated a guy in my hometown for a few months, then moved to Vegas, he would then fly back and fourth to see me for aprox. 2 years. It was never a consistent relationship. However, we were like best ...

I have to choose between my parents and my online boyfriend!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Well, the situation is really complicated. I met this guy online 7 months ago and we started talking. He was a nice guy and we fell for each other and start a relationship. He lives a world apart, but we keep in touch by phone calls a...

Is it really love if he gets angry because I'm too ill to want sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - He tells me he loves me. I have been unwell for a week now. He wants sex and i said no to him cause im not feeling well. He get really mad and pissed off with me. Is that love?...

New, good-for-me guy, or old, not-so-good but can't get over him guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I dated almost two years. He was 24, me, 20. I shared a lot of "firsts" with him, and he went behind my back, and cheated on me physically, and emotionally. He says there was nothing wrong with our relationship, and that he ...

I feel like running away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - hi i am 24 years old still cuz is 11.00 o'clock...its my birthday and i feel like crap.. let me tell u a story,well its starts my morning hubby delivers me roses then comes at noon buys mcdonald to eat lunch leaves to work.. then mom makeing ...

My boyfriend hits our dog a lot and I'm worried about our unborn child.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend hits our dog alot when he misbehaves and I don't like it but I'm worried about our unborn child he has never hit me and said he would never do such a thing but he says he has anger problems and won't go to the doctors for it or anywhere ...

Has anyone else had to leave one parent's home and live with the other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - ok, all of this is pretty long-winded so i dont blame you at all if you struggle to keep up. so not to beat around the bush, i am a sixteen year old (soon to be) college student living with my biological father. i recently moved out of my mother's ...

I proposed, but I need closure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - This is my problem: My girlfriend used an affair with a married man for almost 2 years. During his period as she told me (while drunk)... he fucked her in every way, place and time possible. To the point that she even let him cum inside her. ...

My wife keeps lying to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - wow, it's been almost a month since my wife told me she had sex with a coworker. At first i belived her guilt. she had not got caught, and i believed all of her lies up till she told me. she seems very sorry, and whants to [be what she knows we can ...

I'm 13 and have a son with my boyfriend, but I'm attracted to someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I am so confused right now, I have been with my bf for 2 years we have a son together. We love each other very much and our sex life is great. But I am attracted to another man. Am I wrong for this? Its not a sexual attraction. Me and my bf are ...

He's distant most of the time, but then reappears out of nowhere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 7 month now. Before we use to see each other more becouse i was in school and i sneak when i had the chance to see him and he will meet me no matter what.. lately becouse school is over i havent had ...

My girlfriend's insecurity is ruining our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - hi. 10 weeks ago while my girlfriend was at work i watched a movie called three, it is classified as a thriller but has 2 sex scenes in it. Before this incident i had been going out with my girlfriend for 2months and she has told me she was insec...

I feel used and very depressed, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - hey guys. im hoping to god someone reads this because im so down and depressed over this situation please excuse the length aswell ok here goes a year ago a new guy started my job. i had just come out of an emotionally and occassionally ph...

My husband told me he's been bored with me sexually since the first year of our marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - My husband told me the day I got out of the hospital after 14 years of Marriage that our during our whole marriage he has been addicted to looking at women on the internet, clothed or naked. He had been doing this in a cubicial (beating off) at ...

My boyfriend is acting strange, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4926 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - well i have been with my boyfriend for aprox 2 years now but we are always arguing its usually to do with him being jealous, some people told me hes just being stupid whilst others said it was my fault. about 2 months ago i broke up with him and he ...

Are we a couple or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I've been seein this guy nonstop for a month. He calls daily - sometimes 2x a day. He told me at the beginning that hes not seein anyone else and hopes the same of me. I'm not either - he knows this. Well I was curious by this point as to what we ...

How can I gain more freedom with my controlling boyfriend without breaking up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - hi, im 16 years old and i am in a very confusing and hard situation. iv been in a relationship with a boy for around nine months now. we have done everything together and i mean everything. i love him, he makes me laugh and i love the way he makes...