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Archived questions from: 26 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm thinking about this old friend far more than I should... Advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - i have been with my girlfried for five years and I recently came in contact with an old friend who we used to hang out as friends with a group of people on the weekends but now after a few weeks I've been thinking about her non stop I want to tell ...

What do I do? Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Hey guys. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 2 and a half years now. I love this guy to pieces and he is the best. He is my first true love and we even lost our virginity to each other. We have created a really special bond that I ...

Advice needed! Should I let him know how I feel knowing that he will feel pressure from this line of questioning?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend "retired" a year ago, and he is taking some time off to figure out what he wants to do when he grows up. I can appreciate the need for contemplation, but he wants to figure it out before we talk about our future and start...

No proof of cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I have been cheated on multiple times, and emotionally rejected. My best friend went out with my ex basically. And that relationship only lasted 4 years then broke up. Now that I am in a new relationship of 6 years now, I always have a gut feeling ...

She's being cold towards me all of a sudden, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - Hey me and my girl will have been going out for 6 months now. Everything has been perfect, wonderful. WE get along, similar interests, we are totally open with each other, don't lie to each other we have both been faithful, we have fun.....etc ...

Flakey, selfish friends. What should I do about this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I have this friend. Who I've known for 5 years. He has a great, charming personality and -generally - is a lot of fun. But he also has another side to his character I can't understand. He will do things like invite you to a party with all people he ...

Where is he? What is he doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - hi i am 36 years old and my boyfriend is 40. we have been together now for almost two years. In that two years, i have brought up the future and what he thinks about it, whether we will live together and other things along those lines. He tol...

How to get good advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - You ask for someone's advice and expect to get good advice back, what do you do? You tell them your story and expect to get a good response back. Do you always get it? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. There are a variety of steps you need to consider to ...

He says maybe when he has lost some weight we will have sex again!? I don't understand him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfrined for 2 years now. Since september last year he has been acting strange and we havent been sleeping together. We have has sex 4 times since then. He isnt cheating on me i know that for sure because i am always with him.He ...

He cheats because he doesn't want to get hurt...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend who has been thru alot he fears being cheated on so he hurts me first. he cheated on me and got the girl pregnat we are now back together but i fear it may happen again. he admits he has a problem and that he wants help and needs ...

I hurt him but I want him back. What more can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I need advice. I had a wonderful relatively new relationship and I messed up. we had an almighty argument. I said things bang out of order, he gave back, so I said things worse. It was awful, and sadly all done by text. It was out first ever ...

Photo of exwife

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, Here is my situation. I am currently dating a man who has been divorced for 2 years. He on occasion talks to his ex wife, I'm fine with that because I do the same with one of my exes strictly platonic. Well my issue is that I ...

I don't understand the reason of his being upset. Am I right or am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend is all bothered because he text me yesterday wanting to meet up for sex during work hours. I lied and said that I was stuck in a meeting and left my phone in the car. I don't want him to get used to calling me out for a ...

How to get him to play fair with the household bills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - This is a long story but here goes. Iv been with my bf for a year now, and i have a daughter (but she is not his, he does treat her like his though). I live on my own with my daughter and im not working at the moment but am seeking, so i am...

I'm not really sure what happened with our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I recently asked for a break from my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 years and I suddenly got frustrated and tired that he was now depending on me financially. i have been the one funding our meals transport and everything. He has a job that ...

I can't stop arguing and crying!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Please help me. I love my boyfriend, he treats me like a princess. Lately I seem to start arguments and I moan about everything! I am certainly not the fun loving person I was when we met! I cry nearly everytime I see him, I just get upset at lit...

How can I win back my lady's trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I've been in a relationship for 20 years, my partners self esteem has hit an all time low, and she doesn't feel she can trust me. I've been working in a pub with a girl who I've got on really well with, I considered us to be friends but my partner ...

My fiance has a problem with her own past and I'm starting to feel like I'm held hostage in this relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I've been in a LD relationship and have been engaged for just over nine months. I really love my fiance very much but we have recently been experiencing problems. We disagree on many issues and cannot seem to compromise as we both are stubborn. ...

He is very good at running away and hiding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Everytime he gets angry over anything he runs and hides for days, even weeks. he is very good at running away and he admits it. What to do with this behavior...

He cannot handle any emotions and I am the one who suffers for it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - He gets angry over things I dont cause and then turns it around and says I caused it. He then overthinks the event and talks to all his older women friends he is 53 they are 65-70. I feel that they are enabling his abusive behavior since they ...

She can't show me any love and doesnt' want any

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I am 41 and was in a serious relationship with a 24 year old woman for over a year. She split with me 6 months ago, said she loved me but couldn't be with me. We had no contact for a few days then she called me in tears saying she loved me and ...

I'm losing feelings for my g/f and interested in my friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I've been with my current girl friend for four years, mostly happy times. Lately, however, we seem to get into more arguments and almost every time we do she immediately jumps to the "should we break up" phrase as a solution. I know this seems ...

Should this bug the hell out of me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I'm in love with my girlfriend, she is my only concern in this world, and I've let her known that many times. There are things I've told/named her that I've never told to anyone else, namely ex-girlfriends. She tells me I am "her life, her sky, her ...

After 10 years he finally tells me he's not a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Need Help.... Well I've been together with my boyfriend for 10 yrs we recently moved in together before we get married by the end of the year.. but something ocured and well i'm very concerned and upset! In the beginning the virginity questi...

Is he a commitment-phobe or a total control freak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I am a better than average looking women who is nice and fun and have many friends. My current boyfriend gets upset when they say hello even though I introduce him. I feel his jealousy is way over the edge. He even got upset at dinner with my ...

Relationship Help! Cheating girlfriend, broken heart, sexual past.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I really need help people, im am in a mental and emotional dilemma that is eating me more and more everyday, and i dont know how much longer i can take it unless i get some advice to get over something. I read articles and articles, but i cant get...

Should I fight for my love for him or just go our separate ways??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - hi, i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years... and i just found that there has been another woman in his life for at least 4 months.... what should i do??? should i fight for my love for him or just go our separate ways??...

We plan on getting married, but I want kids and he doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - We plan on getting married someday he doesn't want kids and I want a big family and always have! How can we make this work?...

Tied up again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - hi anuty,last few days I feel like a prisoneer...2 days ago my girlfriend got me drunk,seduced me into sex and then handcuffed me to her bed at her place..slowly she began to remove my trousers and...then all of a sudden she whipped me with my belt ...

He says he wants to leave..he's not happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I have been with this man for 14 years now, we have a 9 year old son. We have had our ups and downs, but have remained strong. I have had a problem feeling insecure due to a weight gain. I never wanted to go anywhere because I felt that I was so ...