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Archived questions from: 13 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He says I bitch a lot and that's one of the reasons he doesn't want to be with me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - Please help. I don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend haven't been happy in a long time. I kicked him out last month and hoped that would motivate him to spend time with me and be intimate with me. He spends no time with me at all. Ever since I ...

Why did his ex get the naughty pictures of him and not me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a while now, we live together. He has 2 kids and an ex-wife. Well, here about 3 weeks ago his ex sent me 3 pics that he has sent to her of him naked in our home (that we moved into together)!! She had been trying ...

Was I conned? Or had he not thought about the circumstances?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - i was seeing my now ex for 6 months, i realised he had a drinking problem, and i made him choose me or drink, after a row, it was causing problems in our relationship, he promised to give up the drinking and get help, he managed to do really well ...

G/f--one minute she's alright..the next she's not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

13 February 2009 (M) - my girlfriend an i are in a long distance relationship. one minute she will b alrite with me then she wont be. she says evrything is fine with us. ive tried talking to her but she just evrythings fine. does she still like me or is she getting ready ...

He'd rather jerk off than have sex with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - My man would rather jerk off then have sex with me. It takes him like 5mins to get me off and it takes him like an hour for him to masturbate. He goes for like a week not wanting to have sex with me but jerks off every night. He says it isn't me, he ...

Talks about sex and then gets cold feet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - My "boyfriend" often texts me saying how he would like to get with me, make love, shag me etc etc. However, whenever I suggest spending the night with him - he always gets cold feet and comes up with an excuse! What is happening here? - I know he ...

My girlfriend's ex is is a family friend! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

13 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of two years has an ex that is a good friend of her family and her brother's best friend. The real problem is that I didn't know about this until about a year and a half into our relationship. She didn't mention it because she thought ...

I lied about my age & he found out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - hey im 34 yrs old , met and a guy some 3 yrs ago, thot it was going to be just a fling, but he ended up talking marriage, problem is im 3yrs older than he is but i lied then that it was just one yr diffence, well he just found out, i actually meant ...

Do alcoholics always return to their former partners?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - My question is....do alcoholics always try return to their partners after they have made some catastrophic, not well thought out, off the wall life changing decision once they realize how stupid they were?...

I'm heartbroken..doesn't he want to see me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm new to this site. I'm experiencing a lot of heartache right now, and just want some friendly advice and encouragement. Here's the story. I met a guy and we dated for a few months. We decided at the start of the relation...

I'm depressed & he's living & breathing his job!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - Hi, Im a housewife thats been totally depressed lately,been through alot with my husband,he`s just obsessed with his job and all dat has to do with it including staff,of late i guess he`s doing everything at work,he`s got no time or patience...

I'm not happy here and can't make a future here. Should I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfrienf for ten and a half years. While we are polar opposites in terms of personalities - he is quiet, gentle and throughtful and I am outgoing and quite tempermental. he is also eleven years older than me. We fight like cat and ...

I don't know if he loves me but I would die for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - hay .... i was with this boy for about 2 years we broke up due to the fact i have a problem with trust him even when he done nothing we was apart for about a year saw diffent people and he got in contact with me and said braking up with me ...

I have a wonderful man waiting for me but I'm too scared to leave my abusive boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - I'm stuck in an abusive relationship and I have a way out, but I never take it. I'm 23 and I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14 and we have a house together. For the past three years or so he has been mean and abusive. He shouts at me, hits me ...

I don't want to stick around for nothing! What is going on with this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - Hi all! I am hoping you can help me with this confusion, or tell me I am right or wrong. This is a short version, with few details, but if some details will help let me know, but I hate typing forever. I meet a guy last April. Neither of us we...

Could I forgive myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - here goes, my confession. its been a long troubled relationship, we met when i was 16 he was 18 we had a daughter a year later and held it together, BUT we both had different lives, seperate lives,we have always been in love in a strange way. ...

I worry he will kill himself if I leave him but if I stay he will destroy us, what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - Hi please I hope someone can advise me on where to go I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years we have a three and a half year old boy together he is an alcholic and is very unpredictable he has been in rehab twice and only just left one treatment ...

I've never had to share my boyfriend before, his little girl makes me mad at times!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been togeather for 4 months now and we both have daughters. Mine 8 and his 5. I love him sooo much but i am jelious of his daughter and his relationship with her.We dont fight about anything but his daughter or his ex. I know ...

My boyfriend is a closed book, how do I resolve our situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - This may be a bit long winded so bare with me! Myself and my partner split up a few months ago after a very intense, passionate and serious 4 month relationship. we were due to move in together and go to the caribean this year etc. We split over a h...

Heartbroken and lonely

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - I have a difficult question! I have been living with my roommate for almost two years now. We recently hooked up, had sex however he has a girlfriend and he made an effort to try and make me a friend of this girl. He has acted like nothing...

Why am I so intent on hurting the only man I love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - I'm awful. Morally bankrupt. I feel disgusted with myself to even admit this to anyone, let alone me. I've been with my partner for three years now, and love him with all my heart.We're soulmates and best friends. However during the three years ...