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Archived questions from: 22 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I just want to be happy but I don't want to make the wrong decision.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I need advice. I am married, I have two kids and I am 9 weeks pregnant. My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. I love my husband but I still love my ex. My ex still loves me. I want to be with my ex but I don't want to ruin the ...

His porn watching is so bad I've even thought of having an affair!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I'm 42 and in a relationship with a man who is 40. He has recently been injured at work and since then he would rather sit in the bedroom in front of the computer every waking moment.. He watches so much porn that one would think it would make him ...

No matter what I do I just can't seem to make him cum! Help!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 18 and experienced and I'm 15 and still a virgin, but we've touched and I had oral for the first time with him and our sex life seems great but he can get hard, but cum with me. I mean I can get him hard in less than 2 minutes but no ...

I feel really guilty, should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - A few weeks ago, a girl I liked a lot, kept asking me to buy her flowers. I was still under her influence because I liked her a lot. There was a new girl I liked, but at the time nothing had happened. Even though this other girl had a boyfriend she ...

Why am I so unlucky in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I am 30 years old and never had a boyfriend and I don't know how to get one. At this stage giving is my only option. It's very unfair why I have no luck at all. The guys have it easier. I am shy and quiet with a weight problem....

How can I stop him from making me feel worthless?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and 8 months and I love him to pieces - more than anything but the problem is he does not make me happy. A few reasons are: 1) He will never admit he plays any part in any argument we have- he will al...

My friends say I shouldn't trust him and that he's lying but I don't know what to believe.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I like this guy but he cheated on his ex of two years twice. He promised he won't do it to me and he wants a chance to prove it. My friends say I shouldn't trust him and that he's lying but I don't know what to believe. I really like him and I don't ...

She has taken over my group of friends and left me out, how do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - i know this sounds really petty but here goes I hang around with a large group of girls. We are in our mid-20's. I would say that I am probably one of the shyest of the group but we all have a laugh and get on. Over the past year a new "friend" h...

Pregnant, in undesirable relationship, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I had a one night stand got knocked up and moved in with him he doesnt love me or care he tells me he does but no sex no kissing has got physical I pay half bills and buy all food he gots out wiyh ex sleeps with her and others yet wants us to raise ...

Should I stay with my horrible boyfriend, or take my kids and go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. he use to tell me how much he loved me, and how he didn't want anybody else but me. i thought he was my soul mate. he came in during a tough time in my life when me and my son was struggling after his dad ...

How do you truly get over someone who you still think is still so amazing? How will I trust someone again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My now-ex boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, after 11 months (to the day.. 11 month anniversary) of dating each other. He said he just doesn't love me any more. I want to hate him, but I still love him. I accept his flaws, I want to tell him good ...

Is my long distance boyfriend just "friends" with this girl or is there more to it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hello readers! I have this problem with my Bf. He's been keeping such distance from me, reason being he's working extra hours and has very little time... Which obviously doesn't prevent him from contacting his Gf. Well, that's what I'm also trying ...

My friend's girlfriend threatens to harm herself if he leaves her, what can he do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - My friend is in a bad bad situation. So im here to ask your advice that i can pass onto him because no matter how many times i tell him to come on here hes like... stubborn. lol Ill cut this down so its a long story short but i hope you understan...

How can I tell my shy girlfriend that her pubic hair is turning me off sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hey I've been with a girl 18 months now, And everything is ok. Only thing is I REALLY have a thing against pubic hair, I'm not a shallow guy or anything it's just a REAL turn off for me. Everyone has things with make them excited and turns them off ...

Am I totally wrong for not being forgiven?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - If you expect your friend to be a perfectionist and a true friend, would you not have to be the same? My friend was going through some issues in her life. from this point on, she would cancel plans on me, or if I wanted to invite her to spend ti...

My b/f is stalking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I have a problem guys and i need your help. I am with a lovely guy well I thought he was. anyway he seems to want to change me and stop me going out with the girls or any of my mates for that matter. If i do go out he appears from nowhere and...

Does he love me or am I just someone to take up his time and space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - So..does he love me?? Or am I just something to temporarily take up his time and space. My ex and I have been hanging out and having sex since November. We were together for 9 yrs, have 2 children and been seperated for 4yrs. I have never stopped ...

I really like him, but he's bi and I'm not sure how I feel about it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - i started seeing this guy, and i am really falling for him. i find out today that he might be bi. im totally straight, and i dont know if im really comfortable with the fact that he likes guys too. if i was left for a another guy, i wouldnt really ...

Was I right to end it with him over lying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I just broke up with my bf today over his lying to me. He is being scammed at work by a coworker and loaned this guy nearly $5000! The guy disappeared and never paid him back. When I got wind of this he told me he had only loaned him $500. The...

I'm pregnant and the Dad wants me to have an abortion or give it up, what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Im four months pregnant by another man which was a one night stand. at the time I was not with my kids father now we are back together and he knows about it because I told him, now he wants me to have an abortion or to give up the baby after birth. ...

Should I tell my BF to tone it down in the bedroom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a different relationship than most you could say. i am 16 and he is 27 but we are in love with each other and we dont see ourselves with anyone else. My boyfriend has like a fetish of spanking me and pulling on my hair when ...

My girlfriend's convinced I think she's ugly and think her friends are hot...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

22 February 2009 (?) - My girlfriend has the worse self esteem issues. It all started when I check out her friend in front of her and say she (my gf) better looking then she is (I was a bit drunk as well). She didn't really care at first until we got home. She scream at ...

Is it worth staying with him when he's so obsessed with asses?

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22 February 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what to do with my boyfriend in my position. He is obsessed with asses and this is probably why he loves my body, but I feel that he is a bit of a flirt. We work together so I can see him flirting, etc. That isn't what bothers me the ...

Help!!! How do I find out if he really loves me like he says?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend always fight, we say we love each other but it feels like there is only sex and not love. How do I find out if he really loves me like he says?...