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Archived questions from: 23 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I be telling her these things or should I be keeping them to myself?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Hi all, I'm going to go on a little rant as I need to vent my worries. They vary in relative importance and some may think I shouldn't be including such varied situations alongside each other. Some things i probably shouldn't be sharing but i need a...

He just won't get the message that I'm NOT INTERESTED!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I just recently passed my driving test and a guy that I was with a long time ago has been constantly texing me and asking me out and asking loads of Q's and most of the time I just ignore him and I keep telling him I'm not interested but he never ...

My boyfriend is doing my head in!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend went nuts at me for phoning my sister, I owe her money thats why I phoned. But then he starts going off about me wasting my credit on people that arent worth it. It's my money he doesn't do anything to make money he's on dsp because of ...

My group of friends are awful to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Can you help me? I go to a private, all girls school. I'm on a bursary though, although my family is well off but nothing compared to most of the people there. Anyway I'll try and keep it short. My group of friends are awful to me. And if I try and ...

Is this something she's going through or is it just me should I stay or should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - With our first child she wanted sex all the time but with our second child which she had early b/c she had high blood pressure and had 2 have the C section, everything has changed she's always tired she says or the couple of times she did it's like ...

Please help me with my relationship!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I'm a teenage guy with a younger girlfriend (2 years) which can make a big difference at my age(16). She likes getting off( kissing) but I want to bring our relationship a little bit further, but she is kinda frigid and finds the idea of oral a bit ...

Do you think I have anything to worry about or if I should just be patient??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi, My friends tried to set me up with a guy they knew the other day but before they has a chance too I met him out one night and we got on really well and danced together and kissed and he bought me a drink. He was so sweet and I really liked h...

I just want to get over him, please help me it's really hurting me and I can't stop crying

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, The boy who I really love is being really dry with me. He does not speak me to me the same way I want to move on and forget him but I really can't. I have spoke to him online since September and I know it's not just the lust and how nice...

My man has a history of cheating on me and dating teenage girls. Now another one says he's with her, but he denies it. Am I wasting my time on a man that'll never change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I would like to make it clear that i love my man 101% before i go any further! I'm not sure how to put this but I've been with my man about a year and a half and all is good but in the early day's he did cheat on me with someone but...

He's thinks I've been unfaithful to him because my vagina seems stretched!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for one year, faithful the entire time. Even before we became serious, I was not with anyone else (he was). He has also spent the past few months attacking my past and telling me the most hurtful things about the ...

I'm feeling troubled about my relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi, ok so I'm feeling troubled about my relationship. In short I've been with my boyfriend just over a year, we moved in with each other after a short while as it just seemed right. I have no doubts about this, I'm happy in my living environment. ...

Is she cheating or really just second-guessing herself with her huge commitment fears?

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23 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend an I had only been together for a couple months when all of a sudden in december she just stopped being affectionate towards me wouldn't kiss me, barely look at me, let alone make love to me. We had made plans for christmas eve and ...

Partner kept nude pictures of a one night stand, I'm not sure what to make of it all!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi:) My dilemma is a bit complicated but here goes! I was on my partner's PC looking for pics of a family holiday we had recently had. While looking for the folder they were in I came across a folder full of poetry and short stories he had written. ...

Should I leave my married lover after 8 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Ok, here goes! I met a man 8+ years ago (when I was ending a bad marriage of 8 years) who told me his wife was "sick" and not able to be with him. After a while I gave in and we started a relationship, working together at a few places over the ...

Two relationships that went bad for no apparent reason??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - i feel like everything is my fault and i i don't know I mean i just came out of 2 really good relationships that went to hell for no apparent reason and im not getting why, am i doing something wrong? i was dating this girl named amber and we were...

I forgave my abusive boyfriend but I cant seem to forget!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. About six months ago we had a fight which lead him to pushing me and choking me. He told me he could never be with me because of what he had done. I love him so much that I couldnt let him go. ...

I'm still in love after 5 years but I'm starting to think we want different things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - i dont know what to do. Ive been with my fella for 5 yrs and yes i do love him but recently im beginning to think we want different things. im really wanting to get a house but because we said last year we would go on 1 last holiday this year in ...

I am irritated by his changes of attitude and faults but he doesn't appreciate that I tolerate all these!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - hi i am in my fourties and have been with my partner for 3 going on 4 yrs,i love him to bits but i also am more irritated about his change in attitude since we met,i never saw it at the start,the trouble is i love him for all his faults and ...

I tried to save my marriage after my wife cheated but now I think it is time to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Today is Monday .. saturday we got a big fight with my wife and she took my two children ( 5 and 11 yrs ) to a friend's house, now I dont know what to do, mainly the fight is for always the same,for money, I work she does not, she and my kids just ...

I want to grow old with her but our sex life is problematic and she is not receptive to any change, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 34yr old guy dating a 31 yr old lady. I'm not all that experienced however I have been around the block. The girl I am seeing is all that I've ever wanted and more and couldn't be happier but this is not so when were in bed. She is not e...

What is my ex really feeling? Is it love or is he playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - my ex and i were together for 2 years and broke up 2 years ago. a few months back he got back in contact with me saying he missed me and was sorry for how things ended between us and i was happy to see him ive missed him a lot. since then we talk ...

My wife is chatting to hundreds of men online even though I have asked her to stop!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I've been married to my wife now for almost 5 years now. We met online in an animated avatar chat room called Habbohotel, and things on the whole are great. but... Basically, i have an issue with her talking to men online. When i knew her...

My ex wants to find god first, should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi, what should I do. I just broke up with my bf, we were together for 3months. At first it was happy then he got stressed with work and we both dunno how to handle it He needed space while I felt neglected but we both tried to work it out. Ov...

My boyfriend says hurtful things, why can't I leave him when I realise I should?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My Boyfrind is-and I can't say this any more nicely- a complete moron when it comes to trying to express what he's saying. I mean, it's one thing to put his foot in his mouth every once in awhile. We all do it. But it's like he has some sick game ...

What do I do if she doesn't want sex as often as I do and she's not even affectionate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - What do i do if my girl doesnt want to have sex as frequent as i do? i dont know if its me with a problem because i want it at least once a day. theres barley no advances from her not even for regular affection. im ready to move on without her it ...

I've had two abortions, and still want a baby... I need guidance, help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi im 15 like all girls that came on this page i want a baby too...but my situation kinda different from everyone elses on why i want a baby ... my boyfriend is 17 now he just turned 17 ...and a year ago i was a pregnant twice and got two aborti...

Even though I have an STD, that STILL isn't enough to make me hate him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I dated for quite some time. For the most part, we had a good relationship. I fell hard for him, I'd have to say and well I can't seem to get back up. Our break up was very horrible. We basically said every rude thing ...

Where do I draw the line with her new friendship with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 5 years, and everything is going well. We are practically open with each other, and basically "loyal" to each other. We are open in meeting ex's, old crushes as long as we tell each other, just to ...

How do you know you aren't in love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - ...or is it something else? I'm in a relationship with a really great guy - treats me like gold. Recently, we've been having more downs than ups (all because of my reactions to things I've learned about him that aren't horrible by any stretch o...

My girlfriend won't make time to hang out with me, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I've been dating this girl for 10 months. She was real closed up. I have broken down that wall a little. I still can't get her to spend much time with me. Lately it seem that her wall has come back up. I might see her twice a week. She is ...

Why won't my husband sleep with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My sex drive seems out of control. My husband doesn't really like to have sex with me as much as I think I need. Not only that, but when I do have sex with him, I feel disappointed. He has never been able to make me orgasm. He is the only person I ...

I want to leave but maintain a friendship for my son's sake.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I am a 24 year old female, I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years and we have a 7 year old son! I moved out with my mom for about 4 days and came back for all the wrong reasons! I have been back for 3 days and still want to be on my own but he ...