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Archived questions from: 28 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I break up because of a sparkless kiss?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I haven't kissed my boyfriend because I'm nervous. I won't feel the sparks like eveyone says, I really like him honestly I don't want to wreck it with a kiss and I don't want him to end it because I'm a bad kisser. I never kissed anyone so how do I ...

Every time we get really close he seems to pull away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Every time we get really close he seems to pull away. I know he was very hurt before by a girl he loved and who was very disrespectful to him not even going to his mothers funeral and they lived together for years. with me he loves but yet will ...

Why would girls prefer the chasing of a guy instead of the safety of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - So I just had to break up with my gf of 7 months today because I found out that a month earlier while we took a one week break she asked an ex of hers out and only took me back because he rejected her. I know it's not like she cheated on me but ...

What should I do here for the best? I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Well I feel kind of silly asking strangers for help but I don't know what else to do or who else to ask. I was a single parent for a couple of years when I met my current partner, at first it seemed like the ideal relationship, he showed interest...

Why does he tell me he wants me and to marry me but doesn't do nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Please help. What is it with me. I spilt up with my ex 6 months ago. I have thought bout him everyday missing him. Wishing he was here. Wandering what hes doing.wanting him back. He has just come to me and said that he loves me so much and realises ...

He had sex, said he loved me but now says we shouldn't be together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - i met a guy in may 07 whom i work with. he is muslim and very religious. we were instantly attracted to each other and started to spend alot of time together. one thing led to another and we had sex. things changed as this was wrong in his bel...

I accepted his apologies, why doesn't he accept mine?

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28 February 2009 (F) - I got jealous and was mad and Hurt. In turn i hurt him because he looked at differently and saidthat I was being disrpectful. Which looking back I was rude and disrespectful but I was enraged. things appeared to be different than they were. After ...

He's having sex with someone else, but he finds no problem telling me about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I been going through some shit lately. He's having sex with someone else, but he finds no problem telling me about it. He tells me it's only because of the kids he loves me, so it's best if we keep just a friendly relationship. ...

My boyfriend's best friend is unconsciously trying to sabotage our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I think my boyfriend's best friend is unconsciously trying to sabotage our relationship! His best friend is a girl and anyone with working eyes can see she has a thing for him. My boyfriend insists they are just friends, though. But when he says ...

How can I stop this mindset and get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I lived with Tim for 8 years. We owned a home together and moved out last April. Main problem was his ex-wife and his kids. The Ex harrassed and stalked me during those years, I did have a restraining order and she broke it 21 times. The kids ...

What can I do? My boyfriend is in love with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is still in love with his ex!! I asked him to tell me truth if he still loved her and he said yes but he really doesn't want to be, they split up years ago but this is the only woman he's ever been in love with and the only woman th...

She's looking for a job in the states but I want her to come and live with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I am having this LDR for 4 years now... My girlfriend went to the usa to study and I remained in Holland where I have my own House, and a good job. My girlfriend don`t want to move back to europe because she has a better job opportunity in the ...

Can you suggest ways that I should confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I did quite a bad thing: I know my boyfriend's email password and decided to check his mail last week. I came across photograph's of a young man in his underwear with captions. Obviously I want to confront him about this, but without him finding out ...

Is it just a guy thing? Does he need time apart from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Do you think this is normal? Is it just a guy versus girl thing? He needs space when there is a problem I need to talk and get resolution. I called him 3 times, this a.m. and he said I am starting to push him away. Now I understand he needs time ...

Am I too controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - When he gets angry he needs to take time to himself. I think that things should be talked about immediatley and resolved. I just called him and he said that by me calling him I am pushing him away and that he just needs time to get over his anger. ...

He only ever sees his side of the story!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - We get along perfectly. We love each other but when we have an issue he won't work on it and runs away into his cave. I don't understand this. Why won't he try to work on it. We love each other and when we are together it is fabulous, it is when ...

He got mad and now he's throwing it all away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - He is so stubborn. He got mad and now is throwing it away. I am not perfect all the time. Should i keep calling him or just let him walk away. And I will suffter and cry. I know in my heart he loves me which makes this so hard, he is very good ...

What do I do? Should I avoid her calls? Is she just upset I can't provide for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have dated for almost a year now, but we've dated in the past as well. We've known eachother for a little over 15 years now. Things didn't get really serious till recently, talking about marriage and children and all of that ...

I feel bad for treating him like this and he keeps on forgiving me, what is wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I moved to Denmark half a year ago to be with my absoloutely wonderful boyfriend. but I have been acting strangely lately towards him I can't understand why or where that comes from. I was very depressed for some time because I had no friends, the ...

I'm unsure about whether I should give the relationship another try if we live closer to each other in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship with a guy who lives many miles away from me for 8 months. We recently broke up after I found out that the entire relationship was almost all lies. He has cheated on me twice, lied about his sexual past, and ...

Am I supposed to wait for her or say to heck with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Last June my best friend got married. As bestman i escorted the Brides cousin down the isle. During the rehearsal and wedding we had so much fun. we just clicked. We spent all last summer together. weather we were talking on the phone or going out ...

She thought I called her ugly and fat, how can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - ok i need some help about this. this afternoon i went over to my g/f's house and its mostly everytime i go there we end up touching each other or having sex. so today when i went over her house i told her that we could only go up to the touching ...

Is she pushing me away because she thinks we're moving too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - so here it goes.... I met a great girl at the start of the year. We went out...went out again two days later ended up having a wonderful time. Things were great, she'd call/text all the time, etc. Then two weeks into it, late at night she tells ...

Is he trying to make me feel jealous? Or is it something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Hi, Mi name is Sadie. Six months ago I became a counsellor at a camp for kids. I met a boy named Adrian. At first I would pass him straight because I was not interested in him. I was never even aware of his presence in a room. Two weeks la...

Should I tell on her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are going through a rough spell. We've dated for about 3 years. I'm a contractor and her house flooded. I did all the repairs, plus more since she's my girl. We'll I did everything but the floors and then found out that she has ...