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Archived questions from: 27 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Your comments are appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My b/f has been very much involved in the behaviour management of my 17 year old. My son is very intellient but very rude and argumentative and drives me mad and I have had to get social services and counselling organised for him. I turned to my ...

I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!

This question has 116 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...

Is he just afraid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - He says he loves me in many ways. We were together for 8 months and broke up for 2 months. We got back together and it was great. But then there was some jealousy on his part due to an older man saying hello who knew both of us he said I should h...

Second thoughts? What could I do to improve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I've been having thought of my own with my long time relationship going on for six years. He says he is happy with me, he gives me all that I could possibly think of emotionally. He's the perfect guy for me. We fit. Yet, it's been a week and I'v...

How can I get over always thinking he wants to be with her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex last year while i was heavily pregnant with our 2nd son, and even though i hated him at the time i took him back. Now our son is 4 months old, and our first born is 2, and my boyfriend wants us to start ha...

Knowing how serious they were...I'm not sure I can be with him anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My partner cheated on me in 2007 but we got back together after 6 months, 4 of those months he was with the woman he cheated on me with. When we got back together he said that she'd meant nothing to him, that she just showed him some attentio...

How can I erase him from my head when she keeps talking about him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I cant get this out of my head and i know i should. I used to go out with this guy dave. when we started talkin, i found out he just got out of a on and off 3 month relationship. I didnt really care since he was single, because whats the harm in ...

He swears he won't hit me again, should I get back with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Should I get back together with my ex? I dated this guy almost a year ago we were together for 4 years before that. While dating, he did a lot of things to me. First everytime I wanted to hang out with my friends he would try to guilt trip me an...

Is there a possibility that I can get back with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - We been couple for 2 years and we broke up because my parents didn't agree with her. Every day we always met each other, we are like the best couple in church. So I told her that I'm sorry I can't take you any more, but I still love you. Her heart ...

Is he really gay or is this a sick prank... I'm confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend are on a break and I see him every once in a while because he is in college so I get on my facebook account and he's posted pictures of another reavealing his penis and the album title says my secret life and lover.. so ...

How can I win her trust back? I love her so very much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - At the start of our relationship, I made the horrible decision to talk with some ex's in a way that I shouldn't. It was completely online, and I did not cheat physically in any way. To be frank, I was scared of the relationship I am in. It was ...

Whenever I want to discuss an issue my b/f gets defensive, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - How do you discuss an issue concerning your relationship with your boyfriend when his immediate reaction to the discussion is to get enraged and become distant. He is not able to have a non judgemental conversation or just hear you out about your ...

I feel more like a roommate than a lover

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I just bought a house and moved in together, about 3 weeks ago. Before this we were living seperately with our parents. We saw each other often and the relationship was everything I could ask for, but since we have moved together ...

Bite the hand that cooks for you

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - what would you do if your boy friend breif case is open and you went to get a stamp for your letter, and you find pictures of some women and him? what would you do or say?...

Our families won't accept we're getting married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I’m 26 years old and have been engaged for 6months to my partner of 4 years. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with this man who is truly the love of my life and want to start planning the wedding, but both of our families are against it. ...

Should I try and talk to him or just let him go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - His jealousy makes him angry and he gets himself very upset. He is not one to handle any type of emotional strife of any sort. But instead of talking about things and working through it he would rather walk away. He says he cant have any roller ...

Would it be sensible to hold off on the military until I'm divorced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - okay, so im leaving for basic within the next two months, I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile now...and when i say awhile, im not talkin about more than a year. I love him to death, i would take a bullet for this man. Here is the probl...

Is he just not that into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - ive been going out with this guy for the past 3 months. we're both in the university. even if were dating, our status is still just friends because he doesnt want to have a relationship. it started this way. one day when we went out, we started ...

If he has changed his mind about me why does he not man up to tell me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I was on holiday in France for 3 weeks over Christmas and new year and i met up with a guy who I had met and got with 6 years ago. He works and lives there. He was very keen on me and having just come out of a long relationship, i was hesitant. I ...

Will it really take 7 years to get over my abusive relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I have been having these emotional outbursts from anger to sobbing but mostly sobbing for the last couple of days feeling so bad for my man how much I am going to miss him, the pain he must be going through to why did he do this to me, goodness you ...

Is my ex trying to get a certain reaction from me by being so mean to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Dear everyone My ex bf is being really horrible 2 me, we stayed friends after we split in november last yr,he now has a gf, but he says im hounding him,and ot getting over him,and on sunday he had a huge go at me over the phone,saying he ...

I don't wanna lose her because of the way I acted lately!!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, in three days will be our five monthiversary, BUT, lately, ive been acting like a bit of a jerk to her. Now, ive apoligized, and were ok now, BUT, after i needed someone to listen to my troubles, she told me tht mayb we ...

Should I be loyal to a relationship that no longer exists?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My girlfriend abruptly broke up with me about 5 weeks ago after I had confessed to her that I had been doing speed for a week straight. A quick background: She left a abusive relationship in June. We became exclusive in November. She had d...

Do I break up with my g/f and see the new girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - I have a fairly common question, but would like to know the answer for my specific question. I have been dating my girlfriend for a year. I have been attracted to her for 4 years and we were friends during that time as well. We both left for coll...

Do drunken mistakes really exist?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship, in which we just went through a period of saving it. We came clean about everything we had done, and he told me he had slept with one of his best friends, who was also living in the room next to him ...

How do I tell him without sounding like I want to be taken out all the time and not have to pay?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this guy a little over a month now. We see each other on weekends. Every now and then he says, 'so where are you taking me?' I drive. Then he said, 'so you're inviting me.' Meaning I'm paying! I only paid twice for d...