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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Letting go of seductive teacher - please help me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, I have a huge problem that has taken over my life, and I'm looking for advice on how to LET GO. I'll try to not make this too long. Basically, I have a female teacher(single, 40s) who I have finally realized is d...

My boyfriend lectured me on my lack of experience with clubs.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Hello. I guess this is probably not a very important queston but it's made me feel uncomfortable and pressured to change. Ok last Friday me and my bf went out clubbing. We had a quiet drink on our own first at a pub then met my mates in the nex...

I am married to a guy that I haven't ever loved.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! First off, I feel so confused and screwed up and I know that there's going to be people on here that will think badly of me, but I am only human. I am married to a guy that I haven't ever loved. We were together for 2 1/2yrs. We have ...

Now why would she do that? Wow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I went over my boyfriend's house to spend a romantic night with him. Found some explicit messages, and long story short the chick he was cheating on me with came over and everything exploded. He claims I wasn't there for him and I didn't give him ...

My boyfriend may already have a child, I'm so confused.

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1 February 2009 (F) - So I am falling apart and I want to be as strong as i know i can be. My heart fell in love with my 26 year old boyfriend 8 months ago. He had no kids and seemed like he would fit very well into my life. So we started hanging out after talking online ...

My girlfriend doesn't want to do anything physical anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Ok, so we have been going out since March 2008, we had a 1 month break in november and we got back together. Our relationship has always been great, but recently she got over the "honeymoon" stage and i havnt. She has told me she doesnt wan...

Am I better to move on and see her only as a friend or stick in there and try to work it out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Previously my girlfriend and I were living together until when out one night she grabbed a strangers crotch when I was away from the table we were sitting at. She claims there is nothing worng with what happened. Upon arriving home I told her to ...

I'm finding it extremely hard being away from him and its very unsettling for me,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together now for just over a year. We both love each other very much but in oct 2008 i went off to uni. I'm only 19 and my boyfriend is 25; but were experiencing some real problems. I'm finding it extremely hard bei...

I know he still has feelings for me but I just don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - So last summer I met this guy, we started off friends but I kinda had an idea that he liked me. We started to hang out and I really started to develop feelings for him. We started to text every day and were acting like a couple, practically going ...

My brand new BF bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - My very new boyfriend bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday only two weeks after we had met. Although I had told him that I have never had anal sex before and wouldn't mind finding out about it, I felt that it was way too rushed and made me feel ...

His Mother hates me because I'm Spanish and I can't stand the way she treats me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - hey just wanted some advice, ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year 1/2 about to be 2 years and we love eachother very very much, we made future plans and all, the problem is his mother. she doesnt like me at all because im spanish. im dominican and ...

He needs to realize that if he keeps acting this way, he'll lose me and his friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I'm in love. I've been with this boy about 4 months and i'm sure its the real deal. The only thing is i've done alot to make this work including fighting with my mom..[she doesn't approve of him] why? because of his ways. we fight, break up and then ...

He lost his job and he's homeless... should I let my new man move in with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - the man who i have been seeing for 5 months has just been made redundant and homeless as his flat is in the place he works. He has to be out by 10 feb. he has no job to go to and no home. i have my own place (where i live with my teenage ...

Feeling left out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I am a very social person. I love people. My feelings are always hurt when I am left out of a party or get-together. I have a couple who are good friends of mine. I am pretty sure that they consider me a good friend also. I have done lots o...

After 5 years, she pushed me away so I made my decision

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, After 5 years my girlfriend who I love to death and care for so much has been pushing me away. I am 22 and she is 21. We have been having these little arguments and she keeps bringing up the idea that if we are like this now, what will ...

He says the hugs he gives to other girls are just friendly hugs but I can't help being jealous.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year now but he is always hugging other girls at my school, and when I talk to him about it he say's they're just friendly hugs and don't mean anything, but I can't help feeling jealous? What should I do ?...

I just wish he could quit thinking his friends are the coolest things around and can do whatever the heck they want.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I don't even know what's going on. I was complaining about a friend of my boyfriend's trying to charge me more for something than he really needed to. My boyfriend told him something different that was lower and he was fine with it. So, he was just ...

I lied to him about my age... how can I tell him the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I lied to my boyfriend about my age. When we first met I was 18 (and he was 27) but I told him that I was 19. It wasn't a huge deal because it was only 1 year but now I'm about to turn 20 and he thinks I'm going to be 21. Going out to bars and clubs ...

His family is still in love with his ex and now he is questioning us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - This guy and I started dating over the summer and we really hit it off. I found out later that he broke up with his girlfriend of two years just so he could be with me. Everything was perfect until he was in a motor cycle accident and that is how ...

Did he have a baby with this fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a man for a year now and things are going well. I have a child from a previous relationship but my bf is very loving to her and he is a very nice man. The problem is that he had a brief relationship a few months before we started ...

I asked her if she was my girlfriend--did I blow it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - Me and my girl have been dating for about 3months we go out to eat a lot and she usually kisses me when I take her home. Or just when she feels like it, when we first met she was all over me and we had sex. But she said she didn't want a relation...

Should I just move on? OR is there a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Where do I start? My life for the past few months has been hellish at best. I recently graduated from high school(in May). once that happened everything seemed to fall apart. i moved in with my bf's family in may-november, but we broke up in sept...

Girlfriend gone wild and unreasonable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend (20 years younger) and I had a drag out name calling fight today. This has been building up for several days and exploded today. Her problem is she thinks every time she wants something from the store (usually food) or go on a drive...

Is this a phase like I went through? Will my ex come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - My (ex) boyfriend "Jake" and I started dating three years ago. Before we started dating I learned that he dealt with depression. He would drink occasionally and frequently smoke pot. He wasn't a partier, but enjoyed having a good time with his ...

Opinions appreciated... Did he use me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - About 3 months ago my bf dumped me because of my age.. I'm 16 he's 18 wow!! Well we broke up and that really fucked up my life honestly I really love him.. the months past and he still flirts with me and he's always there when I'm sad. After new ...

Need solid sensible advice...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I started a relationship with a man 7 years ago when he and his wife were on the verge of a divorce. He was thrown out of his house and needed a friend at the time. I wanted to be that friend. The divorce came soon after. I had also separated from ...

She broke up with me but her best mates and sister, seem to think that she will get back with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - It all started in secondary school. A girl who I was very fond of, asked me out after months of flirting. Stupidly I said no. I said no because I was afraid, and scared, after all she is in the year above. But during my final year of secondary ...

Why has my girlfriend gone off sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

1 February 2009 (M) - I have been with my current girlfriend for about 18 months now. I am at uni, a mature student, she has a young 18 year old daughter with a young baby son of 8 months who lives away from her mother. My girlfriend doesn't seem interested in sex any ...

I really want a wedding and kids but sometimes I can't stand him!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I'm 23 and me and my bf have been together for almost 3 years. The first year he did a lot of bad things and I wished that I had broken up with him but I stayed with him to try to make it work. He is a much better boyfriend now but I have a hard ...

Touched by my cousin and don't know what to do...?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Okay so tonight I was at my aunties and uncles house, and I'm really close with my cousins. So me and my cousin were watching a film in the front room but I was on the side of his chair so I could go on the computer, he put is arms round my waist ...

I am furious right now. He doesn't mean a thing to me, so why does he have this power to make me feel even more miserable about my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - I warn you. This will be long, but I need help on this situation, and I'll try to make it short. I am a Senior in High School, my old high school closed down, and I transfered to a new school. For three days, I dated this guy who was bisexual. There ...