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Archived questions from: 3 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

LDR--do I give up so much to be with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - Hi I'm 34 years old, and am in a distance relationship with someone I love. She is 31. We have been together just around a year. She lives in eastern Europe, me in the UK. We are close and notwithstanding the cost, I spend every spare penny trav...

Relationship effects from sexual abuse

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - From my past of being sexual abused... as well as mental and physical abused it is really starting to effect my relationships... I am 18 yrs. Iv been in many relationships but i can never come to being intimate with anyone. I have difficulty in ...

He lied about his age, was having an affair, what am I supposed to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - ok well i have a pretty big problem. I've been dating the same man now for four years and im eight and a half months pregnant with our third child but i just found out a disturbing secret about him. First off he's had a dominatrix mistress for a ...

Is she making me into a pedophile if she lied about her age?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - Ok, so I met this girl (from this site actually) and we have hit it off, and we are in a relationship, despite the fact we live hundreds of miles away form each other. I'm 19 and coming 20 in a few months. Her profile said she was '13-15'. Which I...

How do I talk to my b/f about lack of sex in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I would like some advice on how to speak to my boyfriend about the lack of sex in our relationship. We have been in a long distance relationship for around 18 months. We are in our early/mid thirties. In the run-up to us having sex for the first ...

Why have I lost my sex drive with my man? I've considered cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Help im so confused! I been with my boyfriend just over a yr and half we have a 7 month old daughter together. We have had our problems, with him drinkin but he is doin much better now. I do love him and am attracted to him its just for a while now ...

I feel overwhelming guilt about what happened with my brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Hi, i really need help. my brother and i used to play together, princes and princesses, but it became more than that, we started kissing passionatly and (i cant believe im admitting this) i sat on top of him. ive always loved him but only as a br...

Honesty...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - I am a divorced 34 year old male. My last marriage was one full of trust issues and what I like to call lack of love. I am now engaged to a gorgeous and wonderful women. The one good thing about my last marriage is that I learned the number 1 and ...

Lack of intimacy in our year long relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - I'm 23 in a serious relationship, and my girlfriend (21) and I have been together for a lil' over a year. We both love each other dearly and we communicate well with each other...however, there's a lack of intimacy in our relationship. I'll give ...

Why do I keep thinking of cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Dear cupid. I'm thinking about cheating on my boyfriend. I do love him and we have a baby together and there is a guy totally hot for me and we kissed today, and the thoughts I have about him are wild. And I can't get this feeling out my head that ...

He swears he wants to be with me but what do I do, he is messed up and unstable...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a very rocky relationship. We started dating almost immediately after my previous relationship, which was a huge mistake on my part, because for at least 6 months into the relationship, I still wasn't over my ex. My ex ...

Pregnant and not feeling ANY effort on his part, help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about 2 years (in May). I am 4 1/2 months pregnant with his child. For the first part of our relationship he was an abusive alcoholic (up until he became sober 4 months ago). 3 times he destroyed my home, he ...

I have got accepted for a job nearer him but he's going to join the army....will I always be wondering 'what if'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Theres a man Ive liked for over 4 years now (I got talking to him more after I'd split up with my ex)and we became really flirty and really good friends wieh eachother (over the internet). Last year, we finally met up with eachother (3 times, he ...

How can I make sense of this so that I can move on with my current boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I met my ex boyfriend a few years ago and fell deeply in love with him, I never knew love like this before, he was everything to me. He told me he loved me too, we started to look for a house together, talked about kids and everything was great ...

Is my Army guy interested in me or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I am "seeing" a army guy who has just recently been deployed. I thought we had made a connection before he left and we said that we would here for eachother and talk on msn. However when i emailed him 4 days ago, i did not get a reply which is u...

A little piece of encouragement

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - i just wanted to say a few words of encouragement to all of you who might be have a hard time with relationship and such. first off all, the God who made you loves you and is watching you all the time. God did not design your body's for sex, ...

He broke up with me after my mum made this scene, should I wait longer before telling him I miss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - My dad past away 4 month ago. He was always there for me through all my relationships. When he passed away, they said I have to come live with my mother, who i havent seen since she left me at age 8 years old. Well i started living with her, she's ...

I'm attracted to my ex more than my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend I've been going out with for a month,but im in love with another boy I had sex with before I started talking to my boyfriend.the another boy I had sex with is confusing me on his feelings about me.I really really wanna have sex ...

My three daughters are treating my girlfriend like crap!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

3 February 2009 (?) - My three daughters (they'll 5, 4, and 8 but mainly my oldest) treat my girlfriend (of a year) like crap. She (my oldest) tells my gf or me to f*** off or to drop died (her sisters are starting to copy her). She have been acting like this since she ...

Does anyone have any ideas on how I can break up with him once and for all?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - If anyone out there can help me, I would be so very grateful... I have a lying, cheating, stingy, emotionally and slightly physically abusive boyfriend. I know I should break up with him. I know he is bad for me. I have caught him on Adul...

I'm suspicious of my uncles and sister's relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I have a suspicion there is something more than normal going on between my sister(22) and our uncle (36). This suspicion is shared by a handful of other people close to both me and my sister. My biggest concern is the fact they are sharing a be...

My GF has been haunted by her fathers sexual abuse, how can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - OK well i have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over three months and she recently told me a secret that she has never told anyone not her friends or her family she told me that her father has been what i guess u can call raping her ...

Engaged to a guy I love but wish I was still with my ex for the sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - OK,I have a few problems in my sex life, all of which I would assume are my own for not speaking up, but the main is, I'm in my mid 20s and I've never had an orgasm with any partner, by myself no problem, but I know the main problem is because in ...

I went from wanting him for sex to wanting him for a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Ok. Me and this guy had been texting, bumping into eachother on the odd occasion and having very few one-to-one sit down chat sessions. But one thing is sure, there was some major sexual chemistry between us both. Weeks went by and he visited ...

Is this what they call police officer mentality???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend goes from nice to mean constantly. It's very annoying. We have stopped going out together, which also is because I'm at my job from 8am to 430pm and he's at work from 3pm to 11pm. So the two days off a week he has off he goes out with ...