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Archived questions from: 10 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Report Shows Women in Abusive Relationships Most at Risk When Breaking Up

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10 February 2009 (F) - Breakups with an abusive partner are an especially dangerous time for domestic violence victims, according to a new report. According to its 20th annual Femicide Report, made available Monday by advocacy group Minnesota Coalition for Battered Wom...

I want to deal with our constant arguing and settle down, I just don't know how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - I've dated my girlfriend for the past five years. They've been really great in a lot of ways and she's made me very happy and I like to think that I've made her very happy too... But in the past six months, my wires have been very frayed. You see,...

Is this the silent treatment? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - i am dating man for a few months now this is the same man that i have posted other questions on here.i i have had problems trusting him he has never done anything to betray me it is mainly my insecurites,.we had a fall out recently because he ...

He does not want to talk about us and has become verbally abusive. What should I do?

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10 February 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. It has had it's challenges as he has not always been truthful. Whenever I confronted him he would always pin the blame on me. The relationship had escalated to verbal abuse in the past ...

What did I do wrong? All I did was love him.

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10 February 2009 (F) - It all started out very nice.. he was so sweet and charming thought he could be the one. After a few months he started being very distant, went calling me much and he would argue and yell at me all the time. When we made up everything was ok then he ...

I'm not sure if I can trust him again after he sent naked pictures of himself to other girls?

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10 February 2009 (F) - So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and three months. We have had our up and downs as in any relationship but he's caused quite a few of the downs. For example, during July this year he had left his email open on my computer. I was ...

Why is love hard?

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10 February 2009 (M) - Okay this is not a question I just want an opinion. Why is love hard? Well my opinion is that love isn't hard its only something dificult to understand. Many people think that love is something u could find easily and live it without getting hurt. ...

I'm a loner and friends talk about me behind my back, I can't take it, please help!

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10 February 2009 (F) - my friend was being really nice to me when her other friend was away and i was really happy because i have no other friends but when her friend came back she dithched me and now im a loner! i tried telling her on msn how i felt but she got annoyed ...

What do you do when your bf chats to girls on sex sites?

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10 February 2009 (F) - What do you do when you find out the boyfriend you have had for a year is using sex sites to chat to girls everyday...

How to work out my differences with my boyfriend?

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10 February 2009 (F) - hi everyone.. i have an issue, thought i should get some opinions on it to help clear my head a bit. i'm 18, i've been with my guy for just over a year now. seems young but im sure that im in love with him, he really does mean the world to me. howe...

Will I ever get over this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - i liked a guy for a really long time and finally after years we started going out.i was ecstatic.i loved every moment.he told me that he loved me and i believed him.but he never wanted anyone to know that we were going out cause he 'thought' that we ...

My husband is a lazy sod!!!

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10 February 2009 (F) - I am 38 years old and married to a man who refuses to work. We own our own construction company and we only had one more job to do on our list. My husband REFUSES to do this job although we have borrowed thousands off my parents and his. I am out of ...

I'm just confused because she has been extremely open sexually, and I don't understand this sudden hang-up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I live several hours apart, and so we only get to see each other a few days every two weeks. We have had sex and both have been extremely open and honest to each other about everything. Recently we got on the topic of masturb...

We won't let each other go but we're with different people!

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10 February 2009 (F) - Well I see a few people on here have already commented on this topic but mines is slightly different so here's the story. When I was about 18 I met this guy who I ended up dating for nearly 2 years. We were completely in love (or so I thought) we...

I would love to settle down but I don't know if my boyfriend is right for me...

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10 February 2009 (F) - I am 28 years old and looking to settle down and have kids. I get on really well with my boyfriend, we are both sociable and he makes me happy. However, I worried that perhaps he is not right for me if I am looking to settle down. He has little ...

Am I a nag, or has he over stepped the trust line?

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10 February 2009 (F) - After looking through my fiancee's phone i noticed a girls number from work in the recieved calls listings, i asked him why she called him and he denied all knowledge untill i said it was an answered call. later i realised the same time he got the ...

Is he just saying he loves me just to get into my pants?

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10 February 2009 (F) - hi... i really need advice. i have been in an off and on relationship for 8 months already with a marine. he recently came back from iraq when me and him met.he suffers from depression and ptsd. its been really hard to keep our relationship going. ...

How do I get her back so she'll love me again

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10 February 2009 (M) - Me and my wife just recently separated. i was unfaithful more than once, and she took me back the first and second times. There was no sex involved in these unfaithful matters, but she thinks so and i can not blame her. i am madly in love with her, ...

Am I being played like a fiddle?

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10 February 2009 (M) - Okay, so heres the deal. I met this guy last month and then he goes away on business out of state, now we would talk every night or every other night and everything seemed fine. He would tell me he missed me and wanted something serious and he was ...

Could someone please tell me what is up with my relationships?

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10 February 2009 (F) - Question: I had 2 flings the past year that i was crazy about. So heres the pattern: 1.They chase hard 2. they get me 3. I fall for them ...eventually it becomes sexual 4. I think of them and want to get a lil serious 5. they get distant...

Could I possibly win her back, inspite of our problems?

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10 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend (26) broke up with me (28) about a month ago. We had been dating for six months and connected perfectly on very many levels. We were both very attracted to each other, had the same goals, interests, and simply loved spending time with ...

My wife wants to use money that we don't have to help her family, I'm sick of it, please help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - I am 39 this year. Have 4 children and a caring and lovely wife whom I have been married to just on 10 years. She if Filipino and I am Australian chinese. I used to work 2 - 3 jobs just to pay bills. Now I work one job, but work all day and night. ...

My long distance relationship is in slight crisis mode, help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is having trouble in college. She's trying to make friends, however, she made none. Everyone calls her name and looks down on her as stupid or a weirdo. I can't do anything to help her right now because she lives in Rhode Island while ...

Guy treated me horribly now how do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - How do I get over this guy? Its impossible! Long story short, I met this guy 2 years ago and we started off as friends who developed into more. He told me he liked me, we hung out and texted nonstop, leading me to believe we were headed for a rel...

He got me a $1000.00 gift certificate and I'm planning on divorcing him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Separated from husband, planning on filing for divorce, just giving him time to adjust to the break up. For V-Day he bought me $1,000.00 gift certificate from a nice jewelry store. I don't know what to do! We've been apart 2 years and I've told ...

Why does he say he wants to meet up and then never shows up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - So I live with my boyfriend of a few years and we get along pretty well. But he has this thing were he will say or text me to meet for dinner or meet at the supermarket or tell me he will be home for dinner in 15 min.....things like that but then ...

Its all a lie!

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10 February 2009 (F) - i husband was unfaithful to me,i was not in my contry when he do it to me,now am back i just know he was unfaithful,he tell me he wil never hurt me anymore,but the thing is he don't touch me he don't kiss me,when i ask him if he still love me he ...

He says he got her pregnant before we got together! Should I believe him?

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10 February 2009 (F) - My question is, you see I'm with this guy almost three months now, now he's going to come and tell me that another woman is pregnant for him, he said it happened before we got together, my question is should I stay with this guy or should I move on ...

Is there any way possible I can make this work again with my wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my wife now for 22 years. For 13 of the years we have been married. We are both 36 years old and we meet at school. My wife and I have 3 children. 9, 7 and 3. For the past 5 years I have treated my wife badly. I ...