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Archived questions from: 25 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is he just being a typical guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend is always out on the field. Always driving from here to there.. Sometimes he's local. And he's been saying 'let's meet up during the day for sex.' I thought sure..but I do have a job. And I just can't get up and go as I plea...

Broke it off with a married 'friend', is he trying to keep things going with me ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Long and short of it, I in the naturalist of fashions was attracted to a married guy I work with. He was also attracted to me which was learned my first year of working with him.During that time we had natural 'moments' of 'dreamy' verbal ...

All because of a picture...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - My bf wanted a pic of me and I sent it to him twice but he didn't get it... now he is mad at me and won't talk to me.. is this a reasonable issue for him to be mad at me about? I really want to talk to him.. what should I do ?...

His reactions causes more damage to me and to him than this minor incident.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - He got upset because an owner of a business he goes to ignored him to talk to me. He said I was disrespectful since I did not walk away immediately;. He was fine for the next few days when I was with him but then when he was alone he blew into a ...

Why doesn't she want to have fun and play around like she used to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - this is just a quik 1 :) iv been goin with my gf now for .... amount of time and we used to have fun and play around (coz we are too young for all the way) but lately it desn't seem she wants to, its nothing to do with her period cos..... well it ...

If I can't go away from her I continue to hurt myself, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - she is my friend from since 8 months, the bond of our relationship was so strong that i could feel her pain, her feelings, i used to solve her problems, one day i proposed her only to find no on her side. she never changed her attitude towards me, ...

My boyfriend leeches off me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - so my boyfriend and i have been together a long time. he still has no job. hes not really making much of an effort to find another one. I supply alot of our entertainment money. He never has a problem using my money. Sometimes he shells out a ...

Once she's had her orgasm, that's it! The sex is over!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - I have a small problem with my other half and I. We have been together for 5 fantastic years now. Been engaged for 6 months now. When my other half and I fool around she likes me to go down on here, which I like doing. I give her an orgasm...

I'm getting so frustrated over what used to be a really fun relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I have some issues with my boyfriend of over a year.. I don't know what I should do, in all honesty I don't want to leave him, but i've got to the point where I don;t think i can take anymore! He will never admit he plays any part in any argument ...

Do you think he just doesn't like sex.... with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - My other half keeps telling me he has no sex drive yet he can watch porn for at least 3 hours a day. Do you think that it's possible he just doesnt like sex? Dumb question I know!...

How do I stop being taken for granted and seen for who I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 23 year old female. I've been seeing a friend and occasionaly we makeout. But I feel he's started taking me for granted. I know I'm fulfiling some of his basic urges but I'm an attractive, intelligent girl (at the risk of sounding cocky). How ...

How long before I can date again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years but things got sour and we broke up the other day. This was because first my mother wasn't supporting the relationship and she had banned me from seeing my boyfriend. The last time I saw him was in May last ...

I'm scared to death to let him go...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Hey girls. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over three years and everything has been great up until... the end of november 08. He got to know this girl Katie* who I have known since childhood. adn they hit it off and had a little bit of ...

His arguing makes me feel so insecure.... what should I do for the best here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I'm with someone who I've been off and one for over four years but we're back into a relationship and things have been pretty great but we keep arguing and I'm feeling insecure, it seems like I'm the bad guy when I just ask for an explanation.. I'm ...

So many problems... can you help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Please please I really need help! I posted a question yesterday is my b/f pervy. I can't stand any more. It's such a long story and I've posted bits over the past few years. I've been with him 12 years, I loved him so much, I stood at the door ...

What's wrong with my girlfriend and why is she being so distant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - Ok so I've been dating this girl for almost a year and just within the past few weeks she has seemed very distant she keeps making excuses about not kissing and stuff like that. What's wrong?...

How can I crush his majorly oversized ego?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I met this guy through a friend and we drank together. We ended up kissing and he kept groping me and shoved my hand down his pants. I knew that I shouldn't have sex with him because I feel that he has been around so I left. I hung out with him a ...

Is her life better without me in it? Is she just unsure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - I'm following up a previous question of mine (posted 2/23 asking for objective advice/serenity)... I am unable to make a decision; I've been spinning my proverbial wheels for about five months with regard to what I can/should do about my ex-girl...

His university course is taking my place! How do I compromise some "us time" ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Feb 09 My boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 or 10 months but were the best of friends for four or so years prior to me 'making my move'. We just finished high school in november so had seen each other at LEAST 6 days a week, every week...

I think I've upset him and haven't lost what we had.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Friends with benefits: I lied 2 him and told him I had been with loads of guys but I haven't, I am still a virgin. He said he feels bad because we have done things and he feels bad that he has ruined my first time, he fingerd me and he didn't know ...

The old lady deserves better than this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - I am almost 81, my wife is almost 88. Mona has 6 grown children from a previous marriage. Since we met 17 years ago we have always professed our love for each other. We have never wished not to be together. Although there never was any cause to...

I found out my girlfriend had cheated in the past and is lying to me too....Can I trust this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - My question is similar to one I've read, but I want to post the question for myself. I'm in a relationship where the trust has been damaged, I've been lied to a few times. Each of these lies had a "purpose", or some kind of plausible reason...

Shouting out during sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Can anyone offer any advice here. I have just split with my partner over the following. We have been together nearly 3 years and I loved him like no one else, but felt he showed his true colours the other evening. We had made love and in the heat ...

How do you stop being a rebound after a divorce?

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25 February 2009 (F) - How do you stop someone being a rebound after a divorce? I've been seeing a wonderful man for two months now after my ex left me for another woman. He had been seeing her over the past 3 yrs and we split 6months ago.The divorce was straightforward ...

I don't understand his behavior

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Hello, I would like to have your opinions on this matter. Even if I always condemned it, it happened that I became interested in a man at my workplace who is married, really I did not want this to happen, it just happened. It's hard sometime...

I cannot accept porn versus my own esteem.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I have awful body image issues. This is very embarrassing. I have a boyfriend who loves me and I know he watches porn on Redtube. He's told me so. He knows I'm insecure, but he doesn't understand it. Now, I don't nag him about this, but I feel very ...

I'm trying to get over a guy and looking for support

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Im trying to get over a guy and looking for support. Ive liked this guy for a while but he's treated me badly in the past and is currently ignoring me. He only talks to me when he wants sex. It hurts so bad to see him able to talk to everyone else...

He shows me no affection outside the bedroom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend we are both in our upper 30s and he shows me no affection outside the bedroom what soever. hell/ goodbye kiss thats about it. I want more, not to sound selfish or greedy but that is what I need. when we are not sleeping together...

My girlfriend is mad at me, I need help... PLEASE!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - I went to morgans island (water park) with my gf and friends, I went on the rides without telling her. Then when I got back she looked mad so I talked to her and asked her if she was mad and she said no. And then I went to sleep on the ground ...