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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been in this on and again off again relationship with this man for nearly 4 years. I had made up my mind to end the relationship as he has lied to me about other women on several occasions. He came back to me, making promises to be right with me and prove to me he was serious and wanted our relationship to work. I have been trying to believe in him. Its only been a week, and now he is heading out of town to dear friends birthday event that I cannot attend. He is taking a female friend whom he had went on a date with once. Claiming no one else could go, he cannot drive due to a suspended license and she is willing to drive. Should I believe this? I feel its wrong. Even if he cant drive and doesnt want to miss the dear friends birthday. I dont want to ask him not to go. But think the choice of driver is wrong for our relationship. They will be spending the weekend together and he claims nothing will happen or ever has. huh? Reply to this Question
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reader, lucky 5  +, writes (14 August 2009):
well it looks like your man knows that if he goes and does his monkey business with his female friend and even if you don't buy his ala bye he can have you back .
is he truthful to you about his friend ,,no he is having sex with her,
should you trust him no you should not should you stay with him no leave sooner better for you .
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): oh no, he is going to have sex with her, FOR SURE. once a cheater always a cheater. in his case very very apt. please do not be his fool anymore, he means emotional trouble to you. he will not change. its best you kick him out of your life and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Dont tell me you really believe him,he must really see you as dumb he`s cheating on you or planning on doing it not taking you says he is single and available or passing this girl off as his girlfriend which ever it is he is wrong to treat you this way
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