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writes:Ive been with my boyfriend coming up 6 years this month but for the last couple of months things have been really bad between us. He told me that he didnt love me anymore and he moved out for 3 weeks then he moved back in as he fell out with his dad. He has been back now for about 8 weeks, although he sleeps on the couch and i sleep upstairs. We still sleep together and he knows i love him with all my heart. All i want is for him to love me again but i know i cant make him. He doesnt have anywhere else to go or he would move out he keeps telling me. When we are together its like we are still a couple. We have 2 kids together the youngest is only 5 months.
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reader, kindhart03 +, writes (8 September 2007):
 Hiya hun, this is such a painfull situation for you to be going through,still being in love with your boyfriend has been made more unbareable since he has moved back in to the family home ,despite him sleeping on the couch ,he still maneges to sneak under the duvet when the mood takes him ,and uses the fact that you still love him to have his way with you,and on the other hand cruley threatens to walk if he had somewere else to go ,well he has got it cushy hasnt he?? he has you right were he wants you emotionally speaking and he knows it ,dont let him ,take my advise and throw this heartless man out of your life for good ,he will have to find somewere else wont he?your self confidence seems low at the moment but you will build it back i promise you ,it will really hurt at first but your children will keep you srong ,belive in your self hun your worth more than this.
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reader, shoe_lover +, writes (8 September 2007):
 i agree the with the above he is loving you as he has no where else to go , stand up for your self girl ,talk to him , it may hurt , but follow your heart , and whats best for your self and your kids
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): He has been telling you that he is just using you for a place to live. He treats you like crap, says he doesn't love you, sleeps on the couch but has sex with you...Are you crazy? Why would you want a guy like that anyways? Why did you have kids with him? Was he always that cruel to you? Why was he living with his dad anyways? Can he not get his own place? Is he paying support for the 2 children? It sounds to me like you're way better off without him and he has nothing to offer you. Find a real man.
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