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I put him first and he spits and yells at me. Why cant he respect me?

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Question - (8 September 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 September 2007)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My finacee of 4yrs and I are having problems. He is very mean to me just because I dont want to go with him over to his friend's place since i believed that it was a guy thing going on.

I've been trying to explain this but he just doesn't get it. We've got home, and so he spit on me many times, and yelled at me etc telling me how i change my mind, just because I was thinking of maybe him just having the guys getting together only.

I was thinking of that and all i go from him was crap.

How can I manage for him to have respect for me? will he ever have that or not? or is it just out the door with him??

I feel as if i am going insane!!!!!!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007):

Hi Love,

Dont put up with this kind of behaviour from anyone, You explained why you didnt feel you should go, Not that I believe that you should have to, Hunny this is abusive behaviour spitting at you do you really want to be for the rest of your life with someone who does this when he doesnt get his own way...

It is spitting now what may it turn into, he needs to go to anger managment, Think very carefully of your overall future with this man love... TAKE CARE OF YOU LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXX

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