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writes:hi,im so upset,angry an miserable how my life is,mainly due to my b/f,and how he thinks he can treat me like he has done to past x`s.we only ever have sex when he feels like it and im forced to give him head yet he rarely goes down on me,i also know he`s cheating on me as his fone is always off and wont let me near it upon numerous occasions i have also found hair in his home and he makes the poores of excuses,he also told me in so many words he`s picked up the odd prostitutes before me and him got together,he`s got 3 children to 3 women and 1 to me.he`s been lying quite a lot this past week and avoided me including not foning me or txting me,do you think i should play him at his own game
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (21 September 2007):
 i think you need to put your child first and leave this guy. without wanting to upset you, if you knew he had 3 children to 3 women, did it not make you think about using contraception? he obviously thinks of himself as a casanova and he isn't, what he is, is a bully and mindless man who has respect for nobody else but himself. and my guesses are he doesn't pay a pound of child support to these ladies and has no contact with his children because they're a burden on his love life.unfortunately you have fallen into the "damaged goods" category of his life now as you have a child in tow and that is not me being harsh, it's me being honest.towrags like him deserve to have nothing. he shouldn't force you to do anything your not comfortable with, when a man receives a bj he should be grateful, its a womens personal choice if she chooses to give one.please beleive me that you can do so much better, not just for you but for your baby aswel. if he's treating you like he did his ex's that must explain why they are his ex's. it wouldn't be a suprise if he was cheating because he thinks you'll never finish with him so he's got the best of both worlds. burst his bubble and walk out.good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): I think you already know that the best thing you can do is to get this a**hole out of your life and find someone who will treat you with some respect.If I was in your position regarding being 'forced' to give head, if that really is the case I'd bite hard. He'd then think twice about that in future.You know this one is going nowhere fast, dont you? As for playing him at his own game, what would be the point of that? Word would get around, you'd get yourself a reputation and it wouldn't do your self-esteem much good.You'd be much better off without him, and you know it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): No I don't think you should play games with this man. He doesnt sound like he is worth the energy. You sound pretty low and Im not entirely sure why it hasnt crossed your mind to leave this guy. I know that it is easier said than done but you will be so much happier when you find a man that respects you and a life that makes you happy.I know your issue is that you are probably trying to make it work because you have a child but thats the worst thing you can do as your child will pick up on vibes as they grow up in this environment. Remember hun, your not a piece of meat. You deserve happiness. x
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