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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:PLease help people!! Okay here's the deal. My boyfriend I had for 7 mounths broke up with me and I was all sad and crying ect. I told my mom what happened and she told me to NEVER get back with him.(She's demanding) The next day we got back together becasue he relized that what he did was dumb and that I didn't mean it and felt really bad about it cus if he wanted to really break up with me he would have done it a long time ago. Since I live a couple hours away I only get to see him a few timesa year but when I do I'm happy, but when we were first togeher I lived right down the street from him. Anyways,I was gonna tell my mom what happened but that day she saw that I talked to him and got really mad and told me I was being weak to talk to him the day after we broke up. It's been about a month and I still haven't told her we got back togeter but every now and then she asks me"Have you goten over him yet?" and I always say yes because I don't want her to get REALLY mad at me. Since she thinks we broke up she said that he can't come see me anymore unless it's my birthday!! WHat should I do?? I really want to see him again!! SHouls I tell my mom that we got back?? What do I say to my over demanding mom??
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (21 September 2007):
At your age the best source of advice is your mum. Stay away for awhile and then talk over with your mum.
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (21 September 2007):
 your mum is not over demanding, she is absolutely right.
this guy dumped you, and then clicked your fingers and you went running back, where is your dignity and self respect? he doesn't love you and he certainly doesn't want to be with you, people break up for a reason. he's at an age where his hormones are raging and you should be thinking about yourself, not soem guy who treats you with no respect. if he cared about you, he'd have cut the strings the second you moved apart because you're holding on to something that isn't there.
you're young and capable of bouncing back, you cried the tears and broke your heart and then he plays god with your emotions byt walking straight back into your life.
get rid and don't be so hard on your mum.
good luck
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