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Do I give my boyfriend up for the guy I lost my virginity to?

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Question - (21 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *ove hurts!! writes:

Im confused!!

I have a boyfriend and STILL In love with thee guyy I lost it to!

Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and everything was perfect THen I saw him[[myy loveer not my boyfriend]]

I mean we are in the same click and stuff so we DO see eachother Alot but something about this time was differnt! ALL this emotions came back REALLY fast and I started to cryy! EVERYTHING has changed in the past week for me and my man just cause I saw HIM! I mean before I saw him I cryed everry once in awhile about what happend and that I wasnt with him! I just dont KNOW what to do anymore Im NOT in love with my boyfriend even though I tell him I am Im really NOT theres only room for one guyy in my heart and that HIM [[my loverr the one I lost it to]]

Its just sooo hard now cause I use to see him everyday but now that hes in high school and Im still in 9th we only see eachother 2 times in the week days and ALL weekend! I miss him more than anything in thee world!!

he sticks up for me stares at me and hugs me but does that mean he still has feelings for him!

I do I get the guyy I want BACK!?? please HELP and please dont tell me to move on Iv heard that enough by my mom and her wife!

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (21 September 2007):

You are too immature to be having sex and steady boyfriends. Wait awhile.

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A female reader, leanne.od United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2007):

leanne.od agony auntfirst of all, i think you should break up with your boyfriend because if ou're lying that you love him like you say you are, then you are being very selfish and unkind to continue the relationship. you are too young to even be having sex, and as for the guy "you only have room for" he was more than likely only with you to sleep with you, it's what teenage boys think about morning, noon and night, hormones flying everywhere, he doesn't want you back, he wants to get in your bed again. and i think regardless of any advice you'll receive, you will do what you want anyway because if you couldn't listen to your parents, you're hoping someone will tell you what you want to hear but i'm sorry, he's only after one thing.

good luck and best wishes

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