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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): you're bf's a loser. Diff states will determine how wet/tight you are. Being more wet will naturally make you feel looser as there will be less friction. Tell him the times you're not really wet is when he hasn't turned you on enough!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Ugh! What a jerk. Tell him that you are wet and open because he made you turned on! D'UH! You put your age as 30-35...is this guy 18?! He sounds like a child.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (8 May 2009):
 Various states of arousal. Lots of influences. Diet, hormone balance, hornyness, sexual activity.
As an indicicator of cheating it fails although women tend to assume the same if the man's erection isn't up to standard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Guys are so dum! and so easy to fool. Gals just tighten your vaginal muscles during the first three thrusts. You'll have him believing he's the only one in your life. Hehehehe, it works for me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): My boyfriend will sometimes have sex with me to find out how tight I am to determine if I've cheated that day. it's such bullshit, it really is.
So the fact I have to explain to him is: The vagina enlarges and lengthens when a female is aroused. This is straight from human physiology textbooks.
Most men don't know this, so you may want to help him out -
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Yea, this happened to me too. I just felt his penis was too small or saggy, he just couldn't get hard enough so he would blame it on me! He even blamed me for not being able to achieve a hard on him!!! Plus it show a level of insecurity from his part. I never cheated on him too. It came to a point where I had to squeeze my vaginal muscles to make him comfortable. Up to this date I still don't know what a really hard penis feels like. Is there such a thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): This is all perfectly normal. Your body goes through different changes at different times of the month. It just depends on where you are in your cycle. You can google it or look it up on webMD and show him to ease his mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): This is because maybe sometimes you feel more horny than other times making you wetter, and possibly if you do more foreplay this makes you more wetter than other times... an when you are more turned on you are looser, try explaining this to him or encourage more foreplay if you feel you want to be loose more often or if you want to be tighter then the less foreplay and less horny you are then the less looser you will be
xx :) hope I helped
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reader, Trias21  +, writes (7 May 2009):
He feels unworthy about himself and afraid to be cheated on. He covers his fears this way.He is probably also overly controlling to cover his inner insecurity.I not sure of that helps you anyhow - but if that's not the type of guy you want to be with - consider moving on.
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