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What made her change her mind?

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Question - (5 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2009)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My wife and I have been married for 14 years. For the first few years, she enjoyed receiving oral sex although she never had an orgasm through oral sex. Now, she doesn't even like it and only allows me to give it to her if I ask. I don't know what has changed and she hasn't said. Does anyone have any ideas as to why she wouldn't want to receive oral sex anymore?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009):

maybe she isn't giving you good feed back about what feels good for her. Maybe she doesn't know what she likes herself?

It might be a communication issue and nothing more: does she know what she wants?

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (5 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntShe may have just gone off it, she may have developed self confidence issues about the way her body looks, especially if her body has changed. Or it may be something as simple as she is concerned about shaving rash in that area and doesn't want you to see it. There are a million reasons for her going off oral sex but you're never going to know unless you talk to her, so have a conversation with her, be patient! Xx

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