A
female
age
13-15,
*hemischiefgirl
writes:Hey,Theres been alot of boys who have asked me for sex, hand job, head job etc...But im still a virgin, i havent given head job or hand job or been fingered, the firther-est ive been is like kissing and its really embarressing.I feel that im ready for sex but im not fully sure.Is there anyway that you can know 100% if your ready for sexual relationships?Thanks.
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male
reader, LazyGuy  + ♥, writes (1 May 2009):
 Yeah, you don't need to ask anyone. You asked, therefor you are not ready. Andb what is the rush? It is embarrising to be a virgin? Wait till you are pregnant and have to explain that you don't know who the dad is. That is embarrising.
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female
reader, Seven_Deadlies  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 Sex is a big step, plus its not all as good as people say it is. When you loose your virginity you will remember it forever so give it a couple of years and eventually you will find a guy who loves you and when you are ready, it will come naturally. What would you rather, knowing that you've given yourself to some random who you wont see again, or knowing that you lost your virginity through love and not pressure?
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female
reader, blahblah666 +, writes (1 May 2009):
 if you find it embarrassing, you aren't ready. how old are you?? i was VERY YOUNG and then i regretted it because i could have held off a lot longer. sex isnt all its cranked up to be. when you are in a loving relationship and the guy loves you and you love him and you know in your heart you are ready... thats when you are ready. not when some guys are coming up asking for some because you dont know wheere they have been, what they will do and you never know your name might be S*** for a while after if hes the kiss and tell type. hold off... you have a lot of opportunities :)
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female
reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (1 May 2009):
 For now i would wait you are way too young to be thinking of such things your being pressurised into thinking these things because of selfish boys and what they want you to do to them! Do they think your a bit of meat they all want a bite of?
I would wait till you were much older i have a feeling you do anything too young you will regret it, be safe always.
Gina
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): The girls beat me to it,
When you dont have to ask youll be ready, when you arent embarassed at all because it feel natural, and trust me if you do it that way you will never ever regret it .
Theres only a first time once may as well enjoy it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Honey, your 13-15 years of age. You really shouldn't be thinking about sex at this point in your life. I made this mistake when I was in high school. I thought I was ready. I thought the guy I was with loved me. I was wrong. And I lost the most precious thing that a girl can lose and should only lose once.
Clearly you don't sound ready, otherwise you wouldn't be questioning whether you should or you shouldn't. Finish high school first, find someone who is 100% committed to you, then take the next step. If a guy loves you, he will respect your decision to wait. You won't regret it. Believe me.
Good luck!
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female
reader, oneandonly?  +, writes (1 May 2009):
I lost my virginity at 16 and I wish I would have waited, don't rush, and don't let anyone rush you
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female
reader, maid_Marian_vetbabe + ♥, writes (1 May 2009):
 youll know when youre ready, because you wont have to ask if youre ready!
If you find kissing embarrassing then youre not ready!
My mom always uset to tell me, pick youre favourite food, and decide whether youd rather have that food, or have sex. And if you want the food more, dont have sex! For me it was always chocolate,
and believe me, youll never regret a chocolate bar, the way you will regret having sex when youre not ready! :) Hope this helps!
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female
reader, satindesire  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 Once you don't have to ask anyone, then you're ready.
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