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writes:Hi everyone, I am 26 and have been with my current bf for almost 3 years. We have a great relationship, he is perfect in many ways. We get along great and have a great sex life. We are both very open at trying new things sexually and I will admit we are kinda kinky. About a month ago we were having sex when our dog walked in, he started talking about how he would love to watch me have sex with our dog. At first I thought he was joking but then I realized he was serious. Now everyday day he brings it up. Almost begging me. I love him and I am willing to do ALOT sexually but I dont feel comfortable at all. Why would he be turned on by this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): Dont even think about it. Its wrong in so many ways. If its not against the law it should be.I am against animal cruelty and I think anyone would agree with me even if they arent against animal cruelty that having sex with your dog is so wrong.If he is serious I would dump the guy!
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reader, Ms.Helper  +, writes (10 May 2009):
 That's sick & abnormal - if he's being serious.
Maybe try watching porn or jazzing things up in a different way; having sex with animals is neither safe or normal.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): Ah, the love that dare not speak its name...
I assume this is a joke. If not, he's beyond help and you need to move to the Antarctic or the Moon to get away from him.
I'm all for loving every living thing and being sexually free, but....
My basset hound is looking up at me with big sad eyes.
Have to go. Feel queasy.
In the immortal words of Mr. Springer, take care of yourselves and each other..
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reader, hdell  +, writes (4 May 2009):
Your boyfriend must really only be kidding. He gets turned on by watching your reaction to his suggestion.
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (4 May 2009):
 "one sick puppy" - NO pun intended - that was humorous.
Lots of people have responded that it is illegal and gross, and many have said that it is pushy and abusive as well.
You may be interested in the fact that there are bacteria that can only be transmitted by dog/human sexual contact, and they aren't particularly healthy to humans, and I'm sure they can't be great for the dog either. Even if dogs are lower in the pecking order and are happy to copulate if they can, the fact is that biologically the union isn't healthy and many bacteria are passed back and forth that were NEVER meant to be.
Your boyfriend may be turned on by this fetish, but you should follow your own desires in this and tell your boyfriend to fantasize on his own...
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reader, salvadda +, writes (3 May 2009):
 You know something, it is forced on the dog. You enduce it and make it happen. It is not natural. If anyone is wondering about the dog, or any animal. That's why animals have mating seasons. Anyway that's not the issue. I will state more about my thoughts in the my last paragraph.He's your b/f and this act in itself is only about sex. It is not about love. For him its a sexual utopia of which he wants you to fill. I would think from any person male or female they would want to think that their mate is sharing love making with only them. I am only speaking on when a couple has a other people or in your case an animal involved with them during sex. It is no longer about/regarding just the both of you. You have added another party to your realationship so regarding animal or person it is not about him making love/having sex with you anymore. I'm sure you understand what I'm saying.This is only one of his fantasies no doubt. If he told you that he had a fantaises of you watching him having sex with another woman, would that be ok with you? Or maybe him having sex with another man and you watching. I might also be leery about opening this door, and allowing this fantascy to come in.This matter is not about a DOG it's a bout his fantasies. If there is this one I will say with great confidence there are more on his mind that this just one. This is not a fantasy he just arrived at in his mind. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with fantasies, but in the long run that's just what they are meant to be. In this case. The choice is up to you. No matter what ppl might *regarding myself also* say it will be your choice.This is just my opinion, but my thought to you is.........If you and your b/f might break up. Do you think he would keep it to himself if you did have sex with your dog? Here is something else also about your dog. If you do this to your dog it will show signs infront of other ppl of your dog's actions. Do you think a dog will not hump other people or what ever you have it do. You will be training it to do so with you. Animals have an inborn pattern of activity or tendency to do action common to a given biological species...most animals btw. For those animal sex films you see. If you really LOVE your dog I don't mean it sexually. You would not harm it in this way. Your dog is suppose to be your friend and companion. All you would be doing is giving your dog a powerful motivation or impulse to go against it's nature. I only put this last paragragh in here to give you some input on animal sex. It would be no different than rape in my opinion. You enduce, suduce, force, what ever you want to call it, in my opinion that's what it takes to have sex with an animal.PS...Also be aware of diseasesIt's all your choice....good luck
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reader, couldbe +, writes (3 May 2009):
Not,NO-but HELL NO !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Don't do it.. and advise he seeks help if you want your relationship to survive.
Plus how do you know the dog would be consenting of the sex.?
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reader, MyWife,MyLife +, writes (1 May 2009):
Yes it's illegal in Canada. We're rough but not heathens.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 It is a known extreme fetish. If you are not into it, and he is then there is going to be problems. Something this extreme which both of you are going to suffer from if it comes out, is not something you should do unless you yourself want to do it. Nude pics published by an ex are already bad enough, imagine everyone finding out from him after you two break up that you did it with a dog. Don't worry, society will see to it that it is you that are judged, not him. Lovely no?
Since it ain't your fetish, the answer is simple. Don't do it and make it extremely clear that this is NOT something you can compromise on. There is a point where there no longer can be a give and take and this is one of those points.
As for the outrage by some of the people here, they must be new to the internet. Compared with people who jerk of to images of dying people a dog-fucker is pretty mild. Welcome to the internet, you can no longer pretend this kind of stuff ain't going on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): You already know. Get him some help.There goes my appetite.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Yuck, sick nasty. One thing is for sure, he's having sex with the dog. What is the world coming to - threesomes with dogs. Yuck, ewwwwwwwwww.
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reader, kissxmexagainx +, writes (1 May 2009):
 as everyone else on here already stated, this is just wrong. your bf has a really disturbing fetish which he really shouldn't think about at all, but if he must, he should keep in in his fantasies. It's not only illegal [in the US, but I'm pretty sure it is in Canada too] but it's animal cruelty. just because the dog would do it on instinct, doesn't mean it's ok. it's animal abuse and disgusting. don't do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): YUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!Time to find a new boyfriend sweetie, and tell him to get a shrink ASAP!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): This is what your boyfriend likes I'm afraid. He might be having sex with the dog himself, I'm not joking here either! All I can say is watch for any strange behaviour betwen them
If it's a turn on to have an dog body on top of you with their smelly breath panting, then go ahead!
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reader, MyWife,MyLife +, writes (1 May 2009):
no, No, NO!!!
There's kink and then there's degradation.
Absolute lack of respect for you and who you are is what I'm thinking.
It's all up to you but that will cross a boundry from which you'll never be able to return.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Okay bestiality is not kinkky, it's not even in the suburbs of being sexually adventurous, it's just NOT NORMAL anyone who chooses to have sex with animals is seriously deranged and also most importantly it is unnatural ,completely wrong, you can even get arrested for it
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 May 2009):
 What kind of dog do you have? I hope it's not a toy poodle...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): okay I'm not exactly sure what the laws are in Canada, but it is definitely illegal in Australia. Some woman got arrested for having sex with a horse on her farm a few years ago. I find it revolting that people would be turned on by this. Seriously, this is where aids come from...
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reader, StudentOfLife +, writes (1 May 2009):
 There's no law against bestiality, otherwise we wouldn't find site about it with just a simple search, online, on the matter.
It is weird, some find that weirdness to be a turn on.
It is not something that should be forced, only those who truly wants it should do it.
There's enough video out there for you to study and make up your mind about it. I've seen just enough to know that it's not for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Sorry hun but your boyfriend has issues!! He needs help and its worrying how your even thinkn bout this 2!! I think you want someone to say its ok to have sex with a dog but your not gonna get it here!!
For your own sanity dont do it, i mean is it even possible to do it?!
Just discusting
goodluck with what ever you decided xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Bloody hell don't have sex with your dog?!?! Don't even vaguely consider it, it's totally and completely wrong!!? Your boyfriend needs some serious help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Sorry , thats not on,
Im a guy and that is not on. If he actually loves you for whom you are, there is no way he would want to share you let alone with a dog,
This guys is one sick puppy (apologies bad pun)
He gets help or you get a new BF.
Sorry but you shouldnt have to degrade yourself to satisfy him, your a woman, not a dog,
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): This is really not good! nothing wrong with being adventurous, but a dog??? you need to have a serious chat with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): okay first of all, beastiality is so illegal. Please do not consider doing this. It is so wrong on so many levels. Not to mention the risks that are involved. I have heard of stories where the dog's cock got stuck in the woman's vagina. I'm sure you don't want to risk this happening to yourself. I think you need to go get your man a karma sutra book or something...but please don't try this. you are violating your dogs rights!
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reader, lou-lou angel +, writes (1 May 2009):
 im sorry bt i think this is pretty disturbing to be honest. if u dnt feel comfortable with it just tell him as you twoo seem to be very open and honest with each other. good luck x x
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (1 May 2009):
 OMG! Sorry that's not on at all is it!
Fiona
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