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36-40,
*evil Crazy
writes:Hello peeps,I am 25 this year and is currently seeing a 40-year old woman. She is divorced and has one child. We knew each other about two months ago and really hit it off, hence we are currently at this stage.In her marriage, she had mostly bad sex experiences with her ex-husband. He was mildly psycotic and controlling, ordering her not to move or react while he did his 'business'. Thus, she rarely enjoyed those experiences.In the past five years leading up to her divorce, she has never had sex.As of now, I know that she had delivered her baby via the Caesarean method and hence, is still tight down there. Besides, she also told me that she is multi-orgasmic. We have not held hands yet, just having very strong feelings towards each other. This coming weekend, we will be going out as a couple and she has told me that she would give me some appetizers.I am a virgin myself, but has had kissing, light petting and hugging experiences on top of holding hands. I have also read up on a lot of sexual information, such as techniques in these past few years. I want to make her feel all naughty and sexy again. Any tips on how I should go about doing that?Thanks in advance!Devil Crazy
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (25 July 2009):
 Just because ur a virgin and its your first time doesnt mean its gotta be basic or boring.
u have to make the night special, light candles in the room, give her a nice massage , kissing (basic foreplay)
just take the night as it comes, u cant plan too much ahead as alot of it is based on the chemistry between u both.
good luck
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reader, Jamez +, writes (24 July 2009):
 well just go for it! read up on three positions that are memorised and just have a good shag, i mean whats the worst that can happen! also befor if you masturbate vigorusly you dont find the initial act of sex as plesurable as you usualy would for a few miniuts. but this does mean you can go for far longer.
this is the best way to give her a good time, and a long one!
james
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reader, Alexiedos +, writes (24 July 2009):
 To be honest you shouldnt hope too much that your first time is going to be mind blowing amazing stuff. Go into it with no exoectations and do what you and she likes. Afterwards great sex happens by communication and confidence which will only happen over time anyway. As long as your sex isnt as bad as her past husbands she will feel sexy again :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): Her c section really has nothing to do with her tightness down there.
Anyway...
The best you can do is be honest & tell her that you don't have experience. Be honest! She can help guide you, and it can be a learning experience for both of you. You'll be learning what she likes and in return she'll get to learn what you like. You want to make her feel naughty? Be patient, understanding, take your time & be wiling to please &in return she should do the same for you. Considering this will be your experience you want to enjoy YOURSELF, not that it isn't important for her, but she's had this before.
Hope that helps you somewhat! Good luck!
And please make sure this is really the woman you want to give yourself to.
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