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Boyfriend can't get hard enough to have sex

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Question - (12 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

i need help when im with my boyfriend he cant get hard enough to make love to me weve been together off and on for 5 years now and we havent been able to make propper love making please hel

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A male reader, a-g55 United Kingdom +, writes (12 July 2009):

a-g55 agony auntSee a doctor

See a hypnotherapist if its psychological

If if none of the above works. Viagra will

last resort....Anal stimulation

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (12 July 2009):

Dr Vendetta agony auntGreeting my minions.

i have returned.

and what a way to start it off with some dick talk.

ok. first question. answer honestly or you're only lying to yourself.. and if unhappy chappy.

In the mornings. does he have morning wood? ( a hard-on) have a check next time.

if this is the case then chances are its a physiological issue as pointed out by "Your Friend" now this can be due to stress having too much going on in his life that he can't relax.

when was the last time you both opened the flood gates and spilled your guts to each other? get all that angry out into the open.

secondly. diet? exercise? or look up Golden Root. its a herb alternative to viagra. I'm recommend the 150mg tablets. as the 300mg are likely to give him a head ache.

no I haven't used them personally but hell I'll give it a go and review it for my demanding public.

Now, if he doesn't have morning wood either.. then.. I'd still recommend golden root (google it) there are several other brands on the market, I'd recommend researching them all first.

some work for some. some work for others.

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A male reader, Your friend Australia +, writes (12 July 2009):

Your friend agony auntIf he is in the 50's age group it could be a physiological issue, should see his doctor in case. If he is losing his libido try some erotic dvd's etc.

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A female reader, creamsauce United States +, writes (12 July 2009):

Can he get hard on his own? I'm no sex expert, but if he can, then he should be able to teach you his techniques to make himself hard. Maybe watch pornography together, if that's not too intimidating for you. Maybe you need more foreplay. A lot of times, a man needs some foreplay and stuff to be fully erect, regardless of what people might think. If it's not that, then it could be a 'health' condition. I don't know about any, but I'm sure a doctor would be able tell him why he can't.

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