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writes: I never get physically aroused any more, and that's making me desperate! I'm 20. I was always horny, lol. Ever since puberty, I'd check out guys, have fantasies, etc.I got together with my boyfriend and I was hornier than ever! I was always fantasizing about him and craving sexual things.However, a few months later I got depressed. I never knew why, maybe it was because I finished high school and had to deal with college applications and all. I snapped out of it after a couple of months. However, during this time, my libido decreased... gradually. I got better from depression, but my libido never came back.Then I stopped looking at guys or fantasizing about my boyfriend. I don't know what's wrong, but it's been almost two years with this and I don't get it!I used to get aroused by making out, kisses on my neck, reading something erotic... I would get that rush and warm feeling all over my body, and lubricated, swollen up in the right places. But nothing happens now. I feel like a female eunuch. My boyfriend, I love him a lot. More everyday. And he's hot, really hot. And we try a lot of things, there's no such thing for us as boring sex. SO it's not lack of attraction or interest. I still want sex with him, but I guess it's mostly because of the intimacy and because I LOVE satisfying him. All I want is for my physical sensations to return because if they did I'd be having the best sex ever.What's wrong with me? What can I do? It just went away during my depression, but I'm not depressed anymore, I just can't find any logic behind this. It's not like I don't want sex, I do, but I just don't get aroused or have any physical sensation anywhere. Help...
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (7 February 2009):
 I think you are still in a depression. It might seem to come and go and you might be bursting with energy right now but that doesn't mean the depression is over.
Get some help before you fall back again and can't get up the energy to do it.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (7 February 2009):
 This sounds like a side effect of depression and is a very common stress reaction. The best thing you can do is seek professional advise.
Good luck
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