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writes:I am going to turn 15 in March ok and I have been dating this guy for quite a long time and I haven't done anything with him yet because I'm afraid that is all he wants from me is sex but he has shown me that he really cares for me and loves me and so on valentimes day I am gonna give him somthing he has never had befor ME... he is 17 and he has had sex before with plently of girls and this will be my first time and I don't know how to prepare for it... Should I shave my hair down there completely off, get condoms I dont know what to do PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): I agree with 'Djmclucas113'. Wait some more time, if he brings up any conversation about having sex, or leaves you for not giving him any then he was just in it for that. But in the end its better because you wont have to feel pressured into doing that with someone when you dont want to. Just wait, you'll find someone that isnt in it just for the sex. And it is a Huge responsibility, so make sure that if you do that it isnt going to be something you'll regret for the rest of your life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): ok instead of ragging on ur age let me give u proper advice.You can catch a disease..orally..or get prego even if he touches the outside of ur vagina with his penis.even if he pulls out before hand.. dribble before u shoot sweetie.Dont be worried abou the pain.shooting a human out there in 9 months will be plenty pain.But lets say u dont get prego..or catch aids or HIV or theother million things..ull regret it.Men come and go..can u live with it?
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reader, Djmclucas113 +, writes (6 February 2009):
 I agree with favorsgirl sex is a big thing and youre only 15 if you really like this guy then wait until after youre married because that way you know he is not in it for sex as no guy is going to wait that long just to get into your pants and if he really cares about you he will wait until youre married
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reader, favorsgirl +, writes (6 February 2009):
I want you to go in your room and read what you wrote in your question b/c the answer loud and clear. Why would you want to give yourself to a guy that has had a lot of girls? This moment will be special for you b/c its your first, but its not going to be special for him b/c he has done this with a lot of girls; tons of times. If you have to question yourself and if you have doubts, then you are not ready to take this step. You are 15 years old and I can tell b/c valentines day isn't a valid reason to lose your virginity. I guess you think prom is another reason to have sex? You shouldn't have sex b/c its expected of you or because its what people give up on certain days of the year. You should have sex when you are mentally ready and you are not. A mentally ready person would not be on a message board asking a whole bunch of strangers for advice on something as precious as losing your virginity b/c a mentally ready person would KNOW. You think that you love or care about this guy, but that will fade. Both of you are young and what's cute at 15 and 17 isn't cute in your 20's and beyond. You asked if you should use condoms and shave, which tell me that you are a little girl trying to pretend to be a woman. Yes you should always use condoms and you should shave YOUR body the way YOU want. I am laughing b/c you are trying to doing something major (having sex), but you can't even figure out something thats minor (deciding to shave or not). You are not ready. Of course your bf is ready b/c he is sexually active, but you think that you are ready b/c that's what you think that he wants. I think that you are unique and special b/c you still have your virginity and when you get older, you will see that having a women that is a virgin is a prize to men b/c it shows that you have morals and wanted to do things right. How many other girls have sex? A lot! So.... why be normal and lose your virginity when you have what nobody can ever get back? There are tons of girls and boys out there wishing that they would have waited....trust me. THINK about what you are planning to do!!!!!!!! You are special and you should stay that way:-D
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reader, ashley_dawn +, writes (6 February 2009):
 Okay, yes shave everything and make sure it is safe sex and you want to make it special not just for him but for you to cuz it is your first time and if I were you I would not let him know until the moment comes that that is what you are giving him.
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