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writes:There's a boy I am really attracted to. We get off at the same bus stop and all. The other day, we were just sitting on the bus when he touched my boob. Randomly, out of nowhere, just stuck his hand out and touched my boob. I was caught off guard, because I've never been touched before, but I liked it. The rest of the day I was happy. He's been giving me the signs he likes me. As in, sometimes he calls me names, but the other day he took my face, looked me in the eyes and said "you know I don't mean any of those names I call you right?" This was right before he touched me. So anyway, I really like him, but I'm not sure if he wants to kiss me back. But the other day when he touched my boob I got tingles, and right then I could lof just let him touch me all day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): It isn't taking your friendship to the next level to inappropriately grab your boob.....he is behaving poorly. Taking your relationship to the next level would be, reaching over to kiss you, or saying to you how he FEELS about you as more than just a friend....it isn't getting sexually agressive, it is very immature, very disrespectful and he is not treating you well, regardless of whether or not you think he is your best guy friend. If he is, you have picked an immature, cocky jerk.....sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): Please understand his behaviour is extremely inapropriate. If he was older he could be reported to the police and charged for just randomly grabbing a boob out of the blue. Please do not be impressed by this guys behaviour, it's sexually aggressive and wrong. And he needs to learn some boundaries.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i know him well and the title isnt exactly correct. hes like my best guy friend, and its like the game scoop that guys play with each other except he did it on me. and i did back away from him, because at first i was uncomfotable, but then i liked it because i know hes my best guy friend, and im really comfortable around him. its like were just taking it to the next level.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): How old are you? I think this boy is being very forward and sexually agressive with you and he is behaving inappropriately. You are excited because your hormones are starting to go crazy at your age, and you are inexperienced and are flattered by the attention.
But, remember, he is being disrespectful towards you and crossing your personal boundaries, which by the way sound very weak. You need to learn how to set boundaries, especially where boys are concerned. A boy does not get to touch you on your boob unless you invite him there.....your reaction should have been one of disgust, anger and putting his hand off of you.
It concerns me that you have so little self respect or self protection....you are leaving yourself open to be hurt both emotionally and physically.
I don't like this boy. He has no manners and no class, and he isn't being nice to you, he is trying to manipulate you and every time you don't react to his advances negatively or by putting up boundaries, he will become more and more agressive, you watch....next he will pin you up against your locker and put his arm or hand between your legs and next to your crotch or something equally disgusting. Stay away from this guy. He is looking to put a notch on his bed post by bagging another virgin. He will string you along as long as it is fun for him and then he will dump you and that is where the devestation will set in.
Like a boy who treats you with respect and dignity and wants to get to know you, not your boobs. OK?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): Well maybe it's the beginning of a new romance :) but be careful. Take it slow. You are still quite young. Try to get to know this guy a little more before you let things get any more serious. If all he wants to do is touch you up, which is possible, then be warned and TAKE IT SLOW. It makes me worried that a guy would be that aggressive so soon, but if you're comfortable with it, go ahead. Just take it slow...
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