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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:im 16. i have a wonderfull girlfriend and we been together for a lil while now i love her with all my heart and we have tried sex a couple times but durin the hugging and kissing i get a really hard boner but when we get are clothes off i get soft i thank im to stressed and i am scared cause the last girl i did left me that next day and i wanna have sex with my girlfriend but i can never stay hard there is alot of answers out there but i only know a few so could u please i wanna try pills or something but i dont wana my parents to find out
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): You don't need pills, you need to relax. Perhaps you or your girlfriend are putting too much emphasis on sex. You really will get more out of your relationship if you put more emphasis on the friendship first, and once you really get to know each other better and build a strong foundation to your relationship based on honesty, loyalty, trust and friendship, the sex part will come naturally and you will feel safe in the relationship.
Right now I think you are putting the cart before the horse, meaning that the love is not strong enough perhaps between you to make making love happen....right now it is just sex which is all about performance and not love and trust......so take it slower!
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