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Lack of performance

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Question - (21 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am in my younger 20's and have a big problem. When ever I would have sexual intercourse with my girlfriend I would not be able to last more then about a minute. It's a really big problem because I want nothing more then to bring her pleasure and make her feel good rather then my self. I've tried breathing different, relaxing, thinking about something else, squeezing and even the "stop-go" but once i begin i am right back where i started. Is there anything i can take, pills, suplements etc? I really don't want to lose her because we love each other but i can't bring her pleasure like this. Please help.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (21 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntWhy not try lots of foreplay. Go down on her use your fingers. Then it doesn't matter how quickly you cum, she will be happy.

Pills and supplements don't help, even Viagra doesn't prolong your ejaculation time. Sometimes in severe cases it is psychological, so you could speak to your doctor about it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009):

i used to count,didnt help me too much,but i was young so i just went a second and sometimes a third time with my fine gf.she was hot and she was nasty.she showed me a lot.if you cant perform twice or three times,i suggest "taking matters in your own hands".i mean what the hell,"WHY GIVE HER THE EASY ONE"?go jack off once or twice before you pick her up,maybe that will maybe make it last,and if youre into her,and at your age,it shouldnt be a problem to go again at least once...more than 1 min anyhow

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