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writes:Im currently kinda seeing a guy that lives far away from me we have only been together twice but we email and ring each other a lot in between the times I go to see him. I just wanna know how long we should wait before we sleep together? I really wanna but i dont wanna jump the gun. I think he really wants to as well but im worried if we do it too soon it will give him a bad impression of me. im 21 he's 23 Reply to this Question
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (5 February 2009):
 In that case if you stay over at somebody else's place and not his, then you have no pressure, you do what feels right and only stay over if it feels right. You can of course spend the night together without the sex, but if you do you are certainly getting very near to doing so. Fiona
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI stay with friends when i go visit, thats how we met mutual friends. Thanks for the advice, I think i will just see how things go the next time i see him. because we dont see each other often its a funny situation its not like normal dating
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (3 February 2009):
Do I assume that because you live a journey away from each-other, your date would involve staying over, or him staying over with you then and this is why you ask? Somehow if this is the case, it's easy to have sex sooner than you would have done in the past if you lived in the same town.
Fiona.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (2 February 2009):
 I always found that as long as it wasn't the first or second date, that I would have more respect for the girl and actually used it as a bit of a test, to see if she was the kind of girl for a relationship.
I think if you have been out with him twice next time see how you feel and if the moment feels right, go for it. Just make sure you use protection, I would hate to see you on here in 3 months saying you think you are pregnant!
Good Luck.
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