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writes:for about 8 months now, ive been in quite alot of pain, its constant, i am sexually active im 15 i started my periods at 13 i use tampons every period, umm ive been sexually active for about 1 year and a half, ive been with the same partner for 2 years never had sex with anyone but him, i cant really talk to my boyfriend anymore about the pain because he just gets angry pissed off, i cant talk to my parents cuz they dont like my boyfriend ( he is asian) i dont have much family to talk to anyway to be honest, basically i got really bad pain, backache, lower pain in my left thigh, and pain in my belly especially opposite the apendix, left side, theres no way im pregnant because we always use protection. my periods are regular and have been since i started. basically its just the pain its really bad i dont really know what to do anymore,i dont really want to see a doctor but i will do on saturday but no very sure what to expect anyone know what this is aboutoh and also i have felt my vaginal wall close, it gets very very tight and it like collapes..help.
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reader, supermum +, writes (14 February 2009):
 why come on the site if you dont want to see a doctor? we cant make a diagnosis for you, maybe you should grow up a bit before postng anymore quaestions and listen to what we ave to say, if you dont want to listen to our advice, dont ask a question!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'll update you know,,
im not going to the doctor, it'll eventually go.
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (2 February 2009):
 since u are sexually active u should be seeing a doctor regularily for 'tune ups' to make sure nothing like this happens. If there is anyone u should be able to poor ur heart and soul into talking to, let it be ur doctor. they are sworn to secrecy unless of course ur doing something illegal or plan to commit suicide. Ur left side is descending intestine and colon, ur left kidney, anything could be up with these. Don't be scared to tell ur doctor EVERYTHING u can think of. They need to make a proper diagnosis if u want the pain to stop, so dont be shy :) They can and will fix whatever is wrong!
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reader, momo4eva77  +, writes (2 February 2009):
who cares if ur parents dont approve of ur boyfrend they still care bout u. so ask ur mom not ur dad (awkward) dont tell ur mom that u had sex wit him but jus say im having pain nd im sure she will help as long as she loves u.
good luck!!! :)
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (2 February 2009):
 I'm sure you practice safe sex.... But it can still go wrong! firstly you are too young to have sex! Secondly go to a Doctor as soon as possible you may be having an ectopic pregnancy which means there is a child growing in your fallopian tube, which can eventually kill you!SEEK MEDICAL HELP NOW!!! This is why little girls shouldn't have sex!
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reader, supermum +, writes (2 February 2009):
it sounds like it could possibly be a problem with your cervix as i had a similar pain when my partner was too hard and ruptured my cervix.... this does not mean this is the answer however, i would strongly reccomend that yyou see a doctor as soon as you can, it is not good to be in pain for a long time.... in the meantime, try painkillers, a hot water bottle and chocolate!As a side issue, it sounds as if you need to have a chat with your bf... he should be more supportive, and not get angry with you for being in pain. I should give you the underage sex lecture, however it seems that you are being careful and you seem fairly mature which is definately to your credit. Please make sure you ARE always careful!All the best sweetie, please keep us updated with what doc says. -x-
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