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writes:Recently, a female friend and I were fooling around. I was wearing a condom and there was some foreplay involved and it got me hard. I was then on the bottom and then I came first then she went in. Right after she went in, I said that I came.This is probably a dumb question, but I came before there was any penetration, so am I still considered a virgin? The girl says I'm still a virgin because I already came before she penetrated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): Yeah, lovelynightmare just reminded me of good old President Clinton of USA. He had oral sex with Monica (given by her), and said to the world He did Not have sex with her. Well what was it then? The world is really getting crazy when people Believe their own Lie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo answer your question, ItsTotallyNormal, YES, I was really HORNY and HARD.
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reader, ItsTotallyNormal +, writes (2 February 2009):
 well, first off, virgin means you never had sex before...have you? you were on the bottom and you "porked it"? then you technically aren't a virgin cause you were in =)secondly, she may have just been bashing you/degrading you because you "blew it" before even penetrating. which doesn't satisfy any woman as we all know=/ were you REALLY horny at the time, i mean REALLY horny? now you're 22? the muscles in your penis that release your "man juices" will calm down as you get older, which is why young teens have trouble holding it in and don't last AS long, they get too excited and their penis does too, it should calm down but...you're 22? i don't know, you must have been really itching to start "flowing the motion"
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reader, lovelynightmare +, writes (2 February 2009):
 Penetration itself is the act you perform that counts as losing your virginity. Who came when has very little to do with it.Now I'm not being accusatory or trying to point a finger, I'm just saying that what went on counted as sex. There are interpretation of what counts as sex, but if people have to blur the line of sex to not call it that, then it probably is.
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (2 February 2009):
 I would think u still are a virgin. But it isn't anything to get worked up about. Just enjoy the experience for what it was and if u had fun do it again and again and again! Seriously...the entire question of virginity is over rated and u should just let it happen. Let it be with a person u feel comfortable with and try ur best not to regret doing it after it happens. By the sounds of things, i.e. ur situation, i would say u are still a virgin. But that is just me, it is an achievement none the less. :)
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