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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Was my thinking wrong? My manager's mother died and I didn't go to the funeral because I haven't even started the job yet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - i just started a new job literally a week ago. Unfortunately my manager's mother passed..i actually don't even have an official work e-mail yet; still waiting for the process to be done. So i hear it through word of mouth. I feel bad but i figured i ...

She has my number but hasn't contacted me... Girls, how long before she might contact me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Im a 20 something guy and want to get female opinions on something. I know usually 'guy gets girl tel number and it goes from there' - but 3 days ago a situation happened - where I helped a girl in a tricky situation, and followed it up by writin d...

Should I report this guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - Help! I'm so fed up. A veryyyy long time ago I was a manager of a retail store where I met a lady who was elder and incredibly sweet. She had 2 sons who I also met one living @ home and one living on his own. Let's call the son living at home "Brad" ...

Is this teacher sending signals?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - Hi I need some advice I'm 19 years old and I think that my 31 year old science teacher might like me here are some things he does He always gives me nicknames and calls me by my surname 2. If I’m sat at my table he always walks down in between th...

Am I pushing him too hard to have relationship with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - hello guys.. i need your advices / help.. so here is my situation : I met this guy online this Sept 26th. 2011..he is a US NAVY but he is in Japan for 3 years,but going back to USA this december.. we always chat everyday, we text during his duty.. ...

Is it normal for my lover to be happy to continue the affair without sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - Hi,im a married woman,two years from now i met a cute guy who is also married.We are physically attracted to each other but till now i refused to have sex with him.He says he will wait till i'm ready,we are very close emotionally we share everything ...

Do you view oral sex as "less than" regular intercourse? Why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Do you view oral sex as "less-than" regular intercourse? I have dated a few girls in the past that readily admitted to giving head, but proudly stated they were still virgins. I have gone out with a few girls who blew me away, pun intended, by ...

My wife is the breadwinner now and wants me to be a house-husband, should I do it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Hi I m from Detroit city age 35. I lost my job couple of years back because of the recession ; haven't been able to find another one. However, my wife,33, has a great job with big fat pay package. Surprisingly, she got a promotion during the rece...

Do I listen to my friends? Give in to my doubts? Alarm bells, not wedding bells are ringing in my ears?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - i'm with a guy who wants to marry me. Yet alarm bells are ringing? He has his own business in istanbul and two other businesses in another city. But my friends say he is using me for passport and visa. Has anyone any advice for me? ...

We are in love, but is she back with her boy toy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship with a woman who is 42. I am 43. We have only seen each other 3times in the last 7 months and had sex on two of those occasions. I love her and she says she loves me completely. However a few weeks ago her ...

Why do I feel hurt that he thinks it's normal to go to a strip club/pole dancing at a stag party?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - The subject of my fiancee going to a stag weekend where there they go to a strip club/pole dancing came up (we're together a year). He said he wouldn't think of going twice and what was the big deal. I was shocked at his reaction. He was then ...

How do I get out of this rut?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I know this is a relationships help site, but I really need help! I am in my late 30's and feel that I haven't gotten anywhere in life. I am still single, have a job that isn't exactly my dream job, and I feel extremely lonely! About 2 years ...

Is it unreasonable that I'd like sex with her every so often? She's stopped all sex now she is a Christian

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, I am in a relationship with this amazing girl and have been for over a 18 months, when we first dated we were having sex twice a week. This carried on until about 12 months later when she asked if we can stop having sex as she is a ...

Is he lying? Says his kiss meant nothing. But my friends say he talks about me non-stop. Is he smitten?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - So this boy kisses me, and then when I try to question him about it, as I like him, he tells me it's nothing and we'd never be anything. Yet every single one of his friends and my friends say he talks about me non-stop, and stares at me, and gets...

Will the heartbreak go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - How do I get over the guy I lost my virginity too? We've been together 7 months and we are about to break up because i am moving 4 hours away next week and it hurts so bad. I dont want another guy, thinking about doing the dating process again just ...

I hooked up with an older guy who turns out to be my cousin! Do I come clean about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - please help me what do i do!!.last night i went to a party and drank more then i should (im under age)..i hooked up with this guy that is about 8years older then me and ive known him all my life. Today i woke up with my sister calling and saying ...

After all my struggles in life I really want a relationship but I have no idea where to start!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm a 23 year old guy with some serious issues at hand. I've struggled with life more than others and have always been somewhat cold and distant with everyone, including myself. I feel like I've been abstract and distant from my own ...

Dating disasters.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4590 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I'm in my early 30s. Never been married have no kids etc A couple failed relationships early in life abs believe me I'm glad they fell through looking back now. But I worry that I'll never find a good long term realtionship or have a family of my ow...