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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What are the ethics of dating and intimate relationships in the workplace?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - I would like to ask a question....what do ypu think of intimate relationships/dating between co-workers? for example are they right? should they be avoided? also is dating between a boss/supervisor and a lower worker ethical? also can some of the ...

Should I stick around to see if he'll ever love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - He said, "I do love you" the other night...in the dark. I took it to mean he's trying to convince himself he loves me. He's already told me he loves just me and his brother. I'm guessing he's not in love with me but he does care and love me - he ...

Do I follow my heart and move far away from my kids or try to stick it out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - Hi again guys. Since last time I asked a question, I made the decision to end the marriage, and filed for divorce a few months ago. Nothing was getting any easier, and my soon to be ex even started going on dating sites while I was trying hard to ...

I fell in love with my cousin's cousin. Should I try to pursue him or just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Hello, I have never done this sort of thing before but I have run out of options and advice from friends. I fell in love with my cousin's cousin and need some advice from a stranger. So here's my story. I have known him since I can remember...

Am I having a mid life crisis? It seems so important to increase the number of woman I have sex with. So would paying for it be a quick solution?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - I am single and am no spring chicken anymore, although Im not exactly geriatric either. In my life I havent really had many girlfriends and can count the number of sexual partners I've had on one hand. Im starting to feel that 'I've missed out...

What is do the numbers signify? What's normal for you? Is more sex with more people success? Or is more relationship with one person more?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - Out of curiosity, how many a) romantic relationships (i.e. dated for a while, no sex) b) full-on-committed relationships (i.e. with sex) and c) sexual relationships did you have by the time you were 22/23? This question is both for men and wom...

What to do? The Cook and I made out in the back room of the restaurant. Do we continue? He's married.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I work at a restaurant as a server. I get along with everyone I work with fairly well, but the cooks exceptionally. All the cooks are men (but I've always been more partial to having male friends than females) Somehow I managed to attract the atte...

Did I somehow drive him away? What's he about? Cuddle one day. Then ignore me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Recently a new guy started working where I work. After hanging out a few times we exchanged numbers, and soon after we were hanging out all the time. He'd even text me a few times a day just to talk. For about 2 weeks he'd always want me to come...

It's not official. So is it wrong to be dating two guys at once? and how do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I am dating two guys at once and it feels like cheating to me even though I'm not officially with either of them and its just dating. I was assured by a friend (having been single a long time and out of the dating game) that if your a free agent ...

Am I too sensitive? Or is he insensitive? And when do you call it quits when it comes to a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I am engaged to my guy for a year and a half now. In the beginning everything was great, I was completely ready to marry my guy. However, the past 6-8 months is making me re-think this whole marriage thing. We're hardly ever intimate, we har...

She contacts me all the time. I ignore her. I am heartbroken. How do I move on? How do I forget her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - I Just recently broke up with the love of my life. We broke up about a month ago. I cant stop thinking about her. I want to so badly. I broke her heart and i want to forget her. I cant. I thought maybe I can get her back, But i realized the...

What's wrong? I'm cute and fun he was not bored but something happened right? I'm lost

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I met a guy in 2007 but at the time we lived in different cities so we stayed friends through email then Facebook. We talked frequently with laps in between when dating other people etc we are in the same industry so we have lots in common but he's...

Does my teacher like me or is he being nice to me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Okay so i need to clarification. I have this theater teacher and he is in this play and i'm part of the running crew. Hes always telling me i'm going a good job but he adds complement in or he'll tell me personally for example . Your doing a great ...

Don't want to scare him away. But how can I drive him wild and make him fall for me? Any reliable strategies please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I've known this guy for about a year now, we've been just friends, but recently he's been texting me about hooking up and being friends with benefits. But he even said a couple times that it would just be fun, nothing serious; so I guess that mean...

Everything was great, why is he pulling back now? Has he changed his mind or is this some sort of freak out that will run its course?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I'm dating this great guy, but he's been pulling back for a couple of days and I'm wondering what's going on. We've been dating for about three weeks. We live in two different cities so its about a three hour round trip for him to come visit. H...

Why do I have trouble completing sex in a committed relationship yet can reliably cum during flings and one night stands?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm a bit confused here, I'm 20 years old, and have only had 2 SERIOUS relationships, the previous lasting 4 years, and one currently. In between, and before the relationships I've had several flings / one night stands, etc. I've noticed I...

Why do I find myself obsessing over the things I say and do in social situations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Why do I find myself obsessing over the things I say and do in social situations? It has really become a hindrance to me, almost uncontrollable; every time I think back on something 'stupid' I've said or done (which is quite a long list, and the ...

My fiance is inexperienced in so many ways. Should we grow old together and learn together? Or should I call it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Would you be worried if your fiance was inexperienced? Inexperienced with life, relationships, and sex. Would it be enough to call it off, even if everything else compatibility wise was perfect? Any input would be greatly appreciated. ...